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Admin	am asking ................... Posted : 18 Nov, 2012 10:28 AM what do men want? really what makes men happy with their spouses Post Reply
View Profile History	am asking ................... Posted : 18 Nov, 2012 04:28 PM Respect to men is as love to women. I cant speak for other men but having a woman who will walk with me and not fight with me. A woman who knows how to mannage here own emotions not volitile. A woman who is honest with her feelings and thoughts. It drives men crazy to have to drag out of women what they are thinking. A women who is able to admit she is wrong. These are just a few of the things important to me but I can not speak for other men. Post Reply
View Profile History	am asking ................... Posted : 18 Nov, 2012 10:46 PM i cannot speak for all men, as one of the male species i am fairly happy and content most all the time.... so i guess the biggest thing the ladie's could do to benefit that is ,Do not disturb the happy content guy :D Post Reply
View Profile History	am asking ................... Posted : 18 Nov, 2012 10:51 PM Women are never wrong. And hey, I thought you'd guys just be content with bacon. No? :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	am asking ................... Posted : 19 Nov, 2012 03:56 AM Had bacon yesterday. It is good for the taste buds but relationship with a lady has the potential to fulfill many more senses even emotions. If a man finds a wife he has found a good thing. They lady who honestly and practically fills the role of wife is a good find. Just as men have lost the ability to lead women have lost the ability to help. Marriage is not for the weak but the meek. Even though we live by certain godly principles we are still individuals with individual needs. It is the couples oppertunity to live in these and serve oneanother in such. Post Reply
mithridates View Profile History	am asking ................... Posted : 19 Nov, 2012 10:43 PM I'd reckon emotional security. Sure the average man can be as hard as a rock on the outside emotionally, but beyond the callous exterior most have long bottled up emotional needs that they are frightened to reveal and yet need being met. To find someone with whom he can entrust them to and feel secure with is likely many a man is looking for, beyond the physical attributes he happens to prefer. Most men might not dwell on the subject matter in great detail or in dramatic romantic scenes, but it's likely a big deal. It only takes words to ruin a person, especially nowadays. A man is likely not interesting in a woman who he cannot trust. But that's stereotyping hard, the bucketloads of shallow men who just want sex and power will likely be happy with a submissive wife who gives herself to him and never pushes back. Then there are men just the opposite, who are looking for the shrew to tame, the prized animal to outwrestle. It all depends, really. God made us all as individuals and it is as individuals, not he corporate, that we are truly understood. Post Reply
View Profile History	am asking ................... Posted : 27 Nov, 2012 11:50 AM I do believe that respect is very important. Respect for who we are. Don't try and change us into what you think you want. Accepting us for who we are is respecting us. That does NOT mean putting up with wrong behavior or abusive behavior. Wrong is wrong but just let us know how you feel about it, don't try to fix us. You can't. We must fix ourselves but we really could use your support and encouragement as we do so. However, sometimes we don't like to hear that we are wrong and our egos sometimes get in our way of receiving your encouragement. Please don't stop trying. We need it. And don't try to understand us. Again, you can't. We can't understand you either. God made it that way. There is not a single verse in scripture that tells us to understand our spouses. We are to live in an understanding WAY but never are we told to understand. That means we have to accept some things weather we understand them or not. Grace comes into play here and just because you don't agree with us doesn't mean we are wrong. Just think about that. Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	am asking ................... Posted : 1 Dec, 2012 04:48 AM All the posts so far are essentially overwhelming. Post Reply