Author	Thread: Ask a guy? Ok... Help?
Admin	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 13 Sep, 2012 10:56 PM Okay so guys how does one deal with this type of scenario; Girl likes guy, girl has no idea if guy likes her.Girls friend's thinks he does but he does not act like a guy who's interested, possibility exists he doesn't know how to approach her and has no idea she likes him. Does she approach him or leave things be and see where they lead? Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 14 Sep, 2012 12:59 AM Why do friends think guy is interested if he shows zero signs of being interested? Sounds on the surface like it's possible friends just want happy outcome for girl so they tell her what she wants to hear. On the other hand, guy could like girl and there could be several reasons he is acting as if he does not. Now, we can really offer zero help to you because we are not in the mind of the guy. I would hate to have us give you wrong information and you act on it. My suggestion would be to stay in prayer. Watch this guy and see if he is someone you think would honor God in a relationship. Be patient...we are on God's time. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 14 Sep, 2012 06:50 AM I say yes she needs to approach him - but approach does not mean to throw herself onto him. She can come up making small talk about the weather or some harmless subject and that is just testing the guy out. Of course then if the Man is really shy and withdrawn then yes the Lady can try a bit harder. If the Ladies always want the Man to be the aggressor THEN they will always end up with aggressive Men. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 14 Sep, 2012 07:29 AM the approach, mentioned girl + two girl friends + one guy friend approach victim guy and invite him to simple social outting.pizza,movie,bible study,coffee,i.e. this will give opportunity to find out more... who knows maybe find out His wife is a merchant marine?, doctor at mission in sierra leone? long haul trucker? or just a bookworm that never leaves the house? Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 14 Sep, 2012 07:43 AM Victim? Ive read several of your posts where you seem to think women are villians, peacenic. Why are you here brother if you dislike and mistrust women so much? OP, just go up to him and start a conversation. Watch his body language. This is a great indicator of interest. People's body language is involuntary. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 14 Sep, 2012 11:14 PM Hmm well girl saw guy tonight at church guy comes over and hugs girl then hugs mutual friend but differently. Guy talks with girl about upcoming events then excuses himself. Girl told by friends (male and female) that he couldn't take his eyes off said girl for the rest of the evening... good right? Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 15 Sep, 2012 12:01 AM Somestime we misconstrue things because we want them to be a certain way. However I am not sayng you have done this.. Friends could still be telling you what you want to hear(Yes this actually happens). Anyway, what about the character of the guy? We(well some of us can) can't just tell you to go for a guy we don't know. How do we know this guy would be good for you? I say stay in prayer and watch the guy...insteadof just looking for signs that guy may like you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 15 Sep, 2012 01:01 AM hahaa Apostelle, i refer to this poor fella as a victim because we are here conspiring against him,and he does not have a clue about it... why am i really here?seeking dates,friends,activity partners,musicians,conversations,learning,ideas,fun,laughs, same reasons everyone is here? Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 15 Sep, 2012 11:16 AM Said guy is a worship minister that is currently teaching others to play appreciate and understand music as it relates to ministry. Well rounded in the word of God and all around good guy lol. Said girl keeping it in prayer but feelings are growing every time they speak, yes said guy and girl are friends. Friends of both guy and girl are strong grounded ppl of faith and will not lead someone on just because and are genuinely concerned and for the coming together of said guy and girl if it be the will of the Lord. Said girl just thinks too much and wondering is making her nutty lol but is holding her own and trying to be patient since things such as these should never be rushed. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 15 Sep, 2012 01:18 PM I am not a Guy ..:laugh: But I agree with Apostelle. OP, just go up to him and start a conversation. Watch his body language. This is a great indicator of interest. People's body language is involuntary. We are all Adults not in high school. lol Post Reply
View Profile History	Ask a guy? Ok... Help? Posted : 16 Sep, 2012 07:44 AM Said guy is a worship minister,This guy is one smart cookie. music moves people and He is not the music..... Post Reply

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