Author	Thread: How to initiate contact with a man online
Katej25 View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 27 Aug, 2012 12:05 PM So, although I'm an extremely confident girl, I've never been the girl to chase a guy. But online, all the rules change. Consequently, I have a hard time initiating contact on here without feeling like I'm totally awkward. Any tips guys?? Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 27 Aug, 2012 12:13 PM First, you need to stop thinking of it as "chasing" a guy. I get messages from alot of people on here. Not all of them are of a romantic nature. There are so many profiles on here that guys can not see each one. So, if you see a profile that you like, find something interesting in it and send him a message about it. Think of it as flirting. For example, if there is something in one of his pictures that catches your eye, send him a message about it...like if he has dogs or something. If he quotes a certain Bible verse, or has a certain hobby, etc. Its as flirt, an icebreaker. Most likely he will look at your profile and if he likes what he reads, he will initiate further contact. Post Reply
Katej25 View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 27 Aug, 2012 12:33 PM I guess I more or less meant "chasing" to be an exaggerated term for what it really is. but thanks! Post Reply
View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 27 Aug, 2012 06:41 PM First stand on your head. Tap your shoes together 3 times and say their is no place like home their is no place like home.........:rolleyes: Just be your self and you cant fail. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 08:53 AM And how well has that particular suggestion worked for you, LetThisMind? Post Reply
View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 29 Aug, 2012 05:52 PM Holder, Beside the tapping of shoes and standing on my head.....Really great. I am engaged to be married. How do you like those apples? Hahaha Post Reply
View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 30 Aug, 2012 07:41 AM congradulations Michael :applause: Katej,a simple "Hi!"would get communication started..... Ladies please take into consideration,Your grandmothers,mothers,sisters fought very hard for You to have equal rights, the days of us attempting to chase You are OVER,DONE,NIL,FIN,no more.... please enjoy and exercise Your rights..... Post Reply
RealLifeSuperHero View Profile History	How to initiate contact with a man online Posted : 11 Sep, 2012 10:54 PM Best way to initiate contact online on this site is in the chat rooms. You can learn a lot about people just by observing them and learnin how they treat others. Flirting is all an acting game-probably not practical. Post Reply