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share1033 View Profile History	No answer Posted : 17 Aug, 2012 12:28 PM Why is it most men we write to don't even bother to ackowledge that they got the message. Common decency and politeness would be to at least acknowledge it. Also you never know until you get corresponding with someone who they truely are. The only acknowledgement I've had on here are mainly scammers. I would even apprecialte a reply back telling me what about my profile was the turn off, or if it was the picture. I can't correct something until I know what it is. Post Reply
share1033 View Profile History	No answer Posted : 17 Aug, 2012 12:37 PM Any of you want to look at my profile and critique it. I'm game. Post Reply
View Profile History	No answer Posted : 17 Aug, 2012 01:18 PM I don't think anyone likes to reject someone so they feel that by ignoring you it would be better than saying, "hey, I'm sorry, I'm just not interested." This doesn't excuse or condone their actions, I just think it's their thought process. There has been one occasions where I mailed a female, saw that she read it, saw her view my profile, but she did not respond. I then wrote another mail saying something to the effect of, "I tried messaging you and if you're not interested I totally understand. If you aren't interested, let me know and I promise I'll let you be." They eventually responded back and articulated their initial disinterest (I was a bit too young for her). The funny thing is, she had a change of heart and wanted to communicate. Maybe you should try that. Don't be too pushy, but if you are really interested in a guy, express how it's not the end of the world for him to not reciprocate the desire to communicate. Hopefully he won't feel so bad and he can tell you what you want to know in a tactful manner. Btw, you are a total sweetheart. ;) Post Reply
View Profile History	No answer Posted : 17 Aug, 2012 06:25 PM I responded to a previous post like the one you have. I said that I usually respond to all messages and winks. I want to be polite. Many did not agree with answering mail if you are not attracted to the person. I disagreed. I usually get men contacting me on here, but so far they are not a love connection and I have had No dates off here for months. lol Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	No answer Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 06:29 AM I see nothing wrong with your profile, share1033. Its a nice mix of your faith, interests, and what you are looking for. You could add to it, make it a bit longer. Post Reply
share1033 View Profile History	No answer Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 10:42 AM Apostelle thankyou for your post. I also like your profile. I may put a little more in mine. Post Reply
Looking4someonereal View Profile History	No answer Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 03:27 PM Many men do not reply, because they are looking for the "perfect" woman....smh I been on/off here 3 years and have run into the same men who contact me before. I find it interesting that there are so many single men on this site and I can even seem to locate just one....... Post Reply
rainbowian View Profile History	No answer Posted : 18 Aug, 2012 08:51 PM That's what women do sadly. I've sent out a bunch of emails and they've all been ignored. Post Reply
jaybirdz View Profile History	No answer Posted : 19 Aug, 2012 07:33 AM I posted this exact question on the ladies forum, so you should look at that too for more answers :) Basically, if you don't meet their expectations right off the bat, more than likely you will get no response. They may ask, "Why initiate something that I know won't work?" and use that as justification. Everyone has their own little reasons to not bother, but I am of the same mindset that I would at least appreciate any response so I at least have an idea. Any person with half of a heart is going to find it really difficult to immediately tell you what they don't like about you, so while it would be good to know, people just aren't going to be that real with you straight away. If you know that you are representing yourself well and see no problem with who you are, then stick to your guns and be patient for someone who is going to see you for who you are and love it. Post Reply
Moichepit View Profile History	No answer Posted : 19 Aug, 2012 10:39 PM I agree. Post Reply
View Profile History	No answer Posted : 23 Aug, 2012 10:30 AM Hi everyone how are you? It's great to back!!:waving: The saddest part about this is that it's not a gender issue for I get that also too my self on here from the ladies. All I can say is that the guys who don't reply to your messages is either looking for a certain type of a lady or that they may not have the time to reply to a message too. Also,if you reply to a message via the cellphone,sometimes the messages don't always get through (send) for some reason. Post Reply

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