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Men do you????????
Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 05:15 AM

Men I would like to give you another challenge and ask you honestly this question.



Do you really know how to love a woman?



I am not talking about lusting after her flesh.............



I am not talking about feeling love for a woman .............



I am talking about practicle application of total acceptence to a woman.....



Not just acceptence but giving to her when you feel threatened by her...............



Giving love to her when you feel disrespected by her.........



Giving her love when you feel manipulated by her.........



Giving her love when you feel missunderstood by her..........



Giving her love when you feel unappreciated by her..........



Giving her love when she is not around and your boys are......



Have you studied a woman to know and understand her needs???????



Until you do you are not ready for a relationship........



Until you learn how to give in every situation your not ready......



So men do you know what love is? Love is being a giver. Love is being strength. Love covers sin. Love will cause you to suffer. Patience is the expression of love. You will be a kind and gentle man to your lady. As you love you will seek your ladies best interest over your own. Most important Your love will never falter. You will stand fast in your love for your woman.



Men engrave love upon your hearts and learn from Gods example, learn from Jesus example, learn from scripture what love is.



Only when we take responsibility in love will we show forth that we are followers of Christ to the world around us.



We have faltered we have failed but lets us pick our selves up and be men.



Strength and Honor,



Michael

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 10:06 AM

Beautiful!

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 12:02 PM

honestly Michael,

if She pulls that kind of nonsense?

She is getting put out on the porch....



though it may be weakened and vulnerable

a skeleton can get by minus a rib.



a rib alone is completely vulnerable....



i so tired of this media inspired,dual standard,pro-femnazi,

propaganda....

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 12:50 PM

Wow, Peace.......



You think what I wrote as feminazi propoganda?





What can a Man say to that but dude you have no idea who I am.



Ok, brother please explain if you are going to label me as such why you think what I posted is such?





Strength & Honor,



Michael

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 04:08 PM

Michael Brother if You would have posted the same "Ladies do You?" in Ask a Lady, i would not have refered to this as a double standard,femnazi propaganda.

but since we here communicating and all.

Bro,whats with all this feelie feely?

Love is a verb...

We are Guys,we do not understand things like Romance,Emotions,Hot Flash,or know the real meaning of words like blurb,splat,nurn...

we can swim to the moon and back before we will ever understand Women, the time we think we understand and are able to give what they say they need and want,they will change their minds....

WHY? idk,GOD has a complex sense of humor?

or as simple as their needs,wants,desires change over the decades?

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Posted : 27 Jul, 2012 05:40 PM

Another word men don't tend to understand is "pining", seriously no man ever understood that word!

And yeah, LetThisMind... Stop posting all that sweet... romantic... lovey dovey stu-- oh who am I kidding, I'm eating this stuff up. WHY DON'T ALL MEN TALK LIKE THIS. *Gets out a couple tissues from her purse, sniffling*

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Posted : 28 Jul, 2012 11:40 PM

Men who are secure in their masculinity do talk like that.

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 01:06 AM

Nooooooo thanks. Being single is way worth not being treated like garbage.

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 01:26 AM

IODC, no one is talking about being treated like garbage. What is being talked about is accepting a woman the way she is. Notice in the things mentioned, he says "when you feel". How you feel about certain situations is subjective. If you are married and she makes you dinner, then mentions that her mother is comming for a visit, you may feel she is trying to manipulate you. To "butter you up with a nice dinner". Of course, the reality may be that she just made you dinner because she is your wife and loves you. Her mother visiting may mean nothing other than her mother wants to see her.



Showing you wife respect when she is not around and your boys are is just being a good husband. Each situation is different.



He didnt mention specific sitations, just specific reactions. Feeling threatened, manipulated, disrespected, etc. Knowing how to handle those reactions properly is a matter of maturity, and will limit marital strife.

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 05:48 AM

I give you an A apos........ :)





Men do you realise understanding our emotions and knowing how to properly mannage them is a show of strength not weakness?



A woman feels secure with such a man. And when she feels secure she is at ease. When she is at ease she can be the woman she is intended to be.



A woman highly respects a man who is strong in such a manner a mature man. All men can learn how to be strong in this manner. A solid man not tossed around by his emotions.





Ms Marvel, Thanks for the sweet words I know you will find such a man you are a good woman and a good man will find you.



What do you think Jesus was like and is still like? He cried with compassion and sorrow over the loss of His friend. I am sure He laughed. Obviously He felt love. Jesus had and has feelings and was able to express them in a solid manner.



Was He some kind of wimp? Or Is He the ideal man?





Love you all,





Michael

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Posted : 29 Jul, 2012 02:48 PM

Amen. I love the way you expressed this.

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