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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 09:22 AM

I have done this website dating for some time since June of 2004 on several different sites on and off over the years. I have found that a high percentage of gentleman on these sites have not been honest with me with what is written in their profiles. I am only being inquisitive here.



How is your reaction to a lady that asks if she can do a background check on you personally before she might date you?

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 09:26 AM

guess it would be that same as if for first date i inquired , "Your clinic or mine?"

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 09:47 AM

You are funny peace...thx for making light of my inquiry:)

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 09:54 AM

The reason I've asked is because I was accosted by a gentleman who went balistic while we were dating and he hit my face with his fist and I called the police on my cell. He was manic depressive and didn't take his meds because he couldn't afford them (he said to the police). He wasn't divorced but separated and had quite the criminal record after the damage to me was done.

This is why I've asked, that was in 2007.

I am very careful with whom I date these days...

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 10:01 AM

Whats better than a back ground check is a spirit of decernment. Pray God gives you such a spirit because will it not only save you from these issues it will be the foundation of your relationships.



Peace, Funny answer and so true. Anyone up for a pap smear?



LOL



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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 11:49 AM

SavedSaint: A background check is a great idea, but it's not a tell-all. A friend or relative accompanying the first couple meetings might help your discernment.

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 12:38 PM

Thanks You Saint,

greatest condolences on Your getting puched in the head ):

in all humor i was kind of serious,as they seem equally important?

background check ,is the past,

You will find out i had alot of fun two and a half decades ago,are You going to hold it against me today?

whereas the clinic,

You will KNOW this person needs meds today....

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 02:23 PM

I wouldnt have a problem with someone doing a background check on me. Just as long as they didnt ask for personal numbers, SSN, DLN, etc. If someone did one on me, all they would find is a traffic ticket because my first car was a $300 junker that I had to tie the license plate onto with wire. I dont know if that would even be on there since it was about 25 years ago.

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 03:58 PM

:laugh:

that was funny!



I would think a man wouldnt mind a back ground check if the lady he was truly interested in wanted one of him.

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 06:17 PM

If I was interested in looking into a background check, I should hope there'd be all sorts of interesting stuff for me to read. I mean like arrested for sword-fighting Bedouins in the dunes of the Arabian desert, or releasing imprisoned elephants from a band of blood-thirsty poachers in the jungles of India or something neat like that. I'd be like wow that man gets out, but he seems dangerous so I'll stay away.

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 06:55 PM

How about if I was arrested for releasing poached Beduoins from sword-fighting elephants in the jungles of the Arabian Desert? :goofball: Or maybe, my brother and I being arrested for defending our bunk beds from blood thirsty pirates in the South Pacific? :laugh:



Sorry, couldnt help myself. :ROFL:

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