Author	Thread: Would date this woman?
Admin	Would date this woman? Posted : 22 Jul, 2012 09:43 PM Her Profile says; Looking for: Marriage But Marital Status says: Separated I have seen so many Men's profiles here saying the are separated but seeking marriage. Isn't that putting the "Cart before the Horse" so to speak ? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would date this woman? Posted : 22 Jul, 2012 11:51 PM Separated = Married Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Would date this woman? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 03:39 AM No, definately not. I recieved a message from a woman who was seperated but looking a few days ago. Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Would date this woman? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 03:39 AM No, definately not. I recieved a message from a woman who was seperated but looking a few days ago. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would date this woman? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 06:05 PM If she came up in a search...I'd pass over her. 'Separated' sounds like part of the 'married' category to me, too. If she sent a message with some interest in me, maybe I'd ask her about it. She could be divorced without having come to terms with it, say, and the last thing people need at a time like that is indifference. People are such strange cattle. But again, if she's married, there's only one guy who could be (who also should be) dating her. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would date this woman? Posted : 23 Jul, 2012 06:09 PM Edit: But again, if she's married, there should be only one guy who could be (and who should be) dating her. Post Reply
PrincessofRedeemer View Profile History	Would date this woman? Posted : 24 Jul, 2012 10:45 AM Gionna jump in here guys:) You are all so great for being a light to other men:):applause::applause::applause::applause::applause: I had this happen to me, his profile said divorced on another site and he acted like he was, and said he was interested in me and was local, so then we texted for a day or so and I told him I wanted to go the phone level, he said well we can just be friends for now sweetie< my divorce isnt final!!!! I was like what you are sitll married, I refused to contact anymore because even once he is divorced, he lied to me!!! He made all sorts of excuses like he didnt have time to tell me and made it seem as if I was over reacting, and said there was not box for separated...LOL there is a reason for that, separated=married to a Christian, otherwise you are walking on a path to adultery of the heart.:angel: This is a world view problem that has crept into the church I think, sad. Bible said we are separate from the World. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would date this woman? Posted : 25 Jul, 2012 05:46 AM I call this the DUH factor. Run for your lives men.....If they are going to stick it to another guy they are going to stick it to you. Besides, people tell us their stories saying how bad their spouse was and we sing of our glory about how great we were. Until we take personal inventory and repent of our trangressions before God we are destined to continue the same path as previous. If we choose the (wrong) woman before what makes us think we know how to choose the right woman today? Besides isnt marriage more about being the right person? The women want us to take the lead guys so lets take the lead. Let us be agents of reconcilliation and it starts at home with the woman we vowed to before God and no other. Lets make a new start with our ladies that God has joined us with. Let us humble our selves before our ladies and begin open conversation that leads to forgiveness and reconcilliation. Lets be men. Just as Jesus gave example let us start dying to self. If you need someone to talk with Guys and need encouragement just let me know and i will help any way i can. Humbily, Michael Post Reply