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Men are you
Posted : 14 Jul, 2012 12:40 PM

Going to get in the way of another man repenting by marrying his wife? An God possible bringing reconcilliation to her marriage?

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Men are you
Posted : 14 Jul, 2012 10:10 PM

What is you point? I noticed that you are divorced and what are you doing on here? I guess you are here to meet your future bride, am I right? Are you not getting in the way of another man repenting by marrying his wife? And God possibly bringing reconciliation to her marriage? Oh, may be you are looking for the one who has never been married but Isn't she getting in the way of your wife....

What are you suggesting those who are dating divorced men/women do in relation to your latest 'Godly' revelation?

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Posted : 15 Jul, 2012 04:38 AM

Whether a man repents or not isn't based on what I do.

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Posted : 15 Jul, 2012 06:53 AM

She's not coming back to you, bb. She's just not.

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Posted : 15 Jul, 2012 03:56 PM

shamah

I liked your response.

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Posted : 16 Jul, 2012 03:48 AM

This truth is based on what Jesus said. These are not my words I just had been praying for yearsand listening trying to understand the why behind His words.



I have expected this question and you are right. What you dont about me is that I practiced this very thing in my marriage until I was loosed by her marrying another.



As Paul writes in 1 cor that if a man is loosed from a wife and he marries he has not sinned.



I had not taken ANY participation in my divorce. She moved to a state where the limitation is only 6 months for a divorce if the other party does not sign not like it is here in Pa I think it is 2 years statue of limitation.



You are right I am looking for a woman never married or widdowed.



Whatever my ex wife did. I was accountable before God to keep and maintain my vow, Im accountable to forgive, Im accountable to keep a door of reconcilliation open, Im accountable to God in trustiong and obeying Him in my marriage.



I did and I will again with my next wife. But we have to satnd for marriage, we have to stand for forgivness, we have to stand for reconcilliation because we are the church and where does revival begin?



With us repenting. The church needs to repent of our faithless approach to marriage.



Who will stand with me?

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Posted : 16 Jul, 2012 05:49 AM

Not me, for one.



I'd much rather worry about ensuring that I'm relating to others in a healthy way, including marriage someday if I choose to be married, than worry about "taking a stand" for marriage in general. I don't think that really helps anyone.

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Posted : 17 Jul, 2012 03:38 AM

Ladies complain that men are not standing for relationships and marriage. They complain that men are not leading.



My life consists of more than my own little selfish persuit of happiness. I seek to be a man who will make a difference.





We feel good being church people but very few these days are really deciples of Christ.



Who will stand with me?

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 12:06 PM

Having just been through a divorce care class, I understand what you are saying. I think it is hard for some of us to even consider never marrying again or waiting around to see if the other is getting married first. However there are a couple of exceptions, adultry or being married to a non christian.

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 03:28 PM

Share,



Thats the common thinking and thinking I used to believe because most bible teachers of america agrees with this but its not what God really wants from us.



Unless we start to question the common thinking nothing is going to change and challenge the common thinking. Where has common thinking brought us?

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 07:52 PM

LTM,

That's not common thinking, that's what the Bible says. Jesus said except for fornication (if you go back to the original language there are several definitions of the word). Paul said if the non-believer leaves. Priests in the OT were told they couldn't marry someone who was divorced or widowed...which logic indicates if an exclusion of these from the 'available' list to priests then those who are not priests would have the option to marry either.

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