Author	Thread: Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me...
Admin	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 9 Jul, 2012 04:17 PM Hey guys I just had an interesting conversation with one of my best friend's who happens to be male. Now the only way I can get this across is to be bare a bit of myself. I like few women on this site have never been in a relationship, yes as in never had a boyfriend. I have been in love but never had had a boyfriend. This was not for lack of having men being interested in me but one, I was too shy and then it was because I did not feel "released" in my spirit to pursue any relationship with any of my so called suitors. From a young age i had decided I did not like the idea of dating around and I just wanted the one guy who I would have as my boyfriend end up being my husband. Now although I have not been in a relationship many of my friends male and female alike come to me for godly advice which baffles me but God seems to be doing the work and I am also the type to learn from others mistakes which is a blessing lol Now my question is, because I know my story is not unique, how would you approach a woman like this? Would you see her not being "experienced" as a plus or a minus? My best friend whom I love dearly :) is telling me in his opinion that this is a plus because one there is no baggage to deal with from previous relationships and two because she has no experience in dating simple things that others would take for granted because it's the norm in dating, dinners, picnics, the giving of flowers etc all those things are new to her. So what is your general consensus men of God, stand and be counted lol. A plus or a minus? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 9 Jul, 2012 10:51 PM Based on what I know about you by reading your posts for some time now, if I were younger... :toomuch: ...I would absolutely be interested in getting to know you better. I think you will make someone not only a wonderful wife, but an intelligent wife and mother, truly interested in furthering the Kingdom of God. You have asked many unique and thoughtful questions on the forums, you've given well thought out feedback and you have displayed courage in being transparent. It would be an honor to build with someone like you. Sincerely, Max Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 10 Jul, 2012 05:10 AM What I am about to say is not for the purpose of flattery. You are a rare gem. Experience vs inexperience. Experience does not make a person have wisdom relationally. Wisdom comes from God and since you have both purity and wisdom this make you set apart from all others. The danger I see on a mans side is to not elivate you to a status above God for your brillience as a rare woman. I surly hope the man who wins your heart is one who will cherish you forever. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 10 Jul, 2012 06:49 AM what could be better than writing a story on a blank page of paper? attempting to write one on a page that had been previously scribbled on by others? i think not :D Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 10 Jul, 2012 09:16 AM About three weeks ago I left this site but I loved the blogs so much I came back... and I'm glad I did. My intention really wasn't to draw attention to myself but as curiosity demanded an answer to a question I am sure many in women in my position wondered about I posted and the feedback so far has truly touched my heart, genuinely. Growing up as a child I believed my family loved me in their own way but I was never really validated by the one man that should show me how a man should treat me, my father, this is not a unique story but it is mine. I saw that it also happened to my Aunts and decided froma very young age that it would not happen to me, the cycle of trying to find my worth in a man. So I stayed single and let the Lord love me and give me and identity and I am glad he did I have no regrets. To mydreamtime33, Let this Mind, and peacenic thank you for taking some time to brighten my day and from reading your posts and replies I know you are not men to use flattering words but they are genuine. @ peacenic that's how my male friends refer to me as a blank canvas ha ha it's so funny you would say that. I am amazed at my Heavenly Father because though I may project a tough demeanor or rather a strong one he knew that I needed your words even before I did Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 10 Jul, 2012 12:57 PM It would be a plus. It is exceedingly rare to find someone who is willing to avoid worldly temptation for their faith God. Even the devout date and because of this, many "give in" to worldly desire. You are very rare indeed. God bless. Post Reply
kev116 View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 13 Jul, 2012 12:39 AM that is an absolute 100% no doubt about it PLUS + lol maybe on this site your scenario is not as unique but the whole reason I'm on this site is because its extremely hard to find a woman like you! you are a diamond in the ruff and thats both a rare and beautiful thing! :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 28 Aug, 2012 09:58 PM That's kind of hurtful..... Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Would you date me? Not me, me but hypothetical me... Posted : 29 Aug, 2012 05:44 AM What is kind of hurtful, LaurenRenee? Ive seen nothing here that is hurtful. Post Reply