Author	Thread: Deceit
Seuss View Profile History	Deceit Posted : 6 Jul, 2012 12:35 PM Why do some men a woman meets on the internet say one thing then change instantly? why all the lies? because they are so lonely? I am so very tired of it. If a man does not want to be with me, tell me right away so I can get out of the relationship. I have been hurt way too much, cant take much more. Why do men use women, use her up then throw her away. At least that is how it feels for me. I apologize to all the decent, honest, genuine, compassionate men out there for what i have shared here. Post Reply
View Profile History	Deceit Posted : 7 Jul, 2012 10:17 AM Hi Seuss, I am so sorry for your experiences, it is a part of life we wish we can avoid and seems like an unnecessary pain and one that can be avoided. Maybe it can and maybe it cannot it depends on your perception. I pray that through it all you don't lose hope that there are good, kind decent men out there and while it's harder to discern them and you need to be careful, keep your heart safely planted in Christ's. I am not sure if men or women can adequately give you the answers you seek because every situation is different and almost every man is different. It happened to me here in fact on this site but I press on. Be blessed in Jesus name. Post Reply
View Profile History	Deceit Posted : 7 Jul, 2012 10:23 AM Hi Sorry this happened to you! I pray God to send you a decent loving man who will be serious about a relationship. I have met men who are very serious and very up front and honest on Christian mingle. Of course, I deal with Older men because I am Older. Keep the Faith good men do exist. :angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Deceit Posted : 7 Jul, 2012 11:17 AM I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I understand what you feel and what you are going through. Yes, sometimes you feel like the really unlucky one but i would like to tell you that there are still some decent men out there. you just have to keep holding on until you realize what God has in store for you. Personally, i learnt a lesson on here the hard way but i hope you understand that such is life, you just have to put together the broken pieces and be careful now and let God take charge. I pray you find a honest and decent man... Post Reply
Athena28 View Profile History	Deceit Posted : 7 Jul, 2012 10:36 PM Proverbs 31:30 says that charm is deceptive and beauty (or being handsome) is fleeting, but that a woman or man who fears the Lord is to be praised. When we ladies have been hurt and are vulnerable it is easy to be swept away by the charm and attention of a man instead of cautiously examining a man's relationship with God. When you talk to a guy and he puts his best foot forward, is his best foot himself (charm)? Is it you (flattery)? Or does he defer that honor to the Lord by placing Him first in his conversation? Post Reply
View Profile History	Deceit Posted : 9 Jul, 2012 04:33 PM @Athena, VERY good advice! Post Reply
GraceAndKindness View Profile History	Deceit Posted : 9 Jul, 2012 06:31 PM Hi Seuss I am so sorry for your experiences and agree in prayer with our sisters here. I know your pain, sure we all do. I have no answers aside from the fact that we don't quite live in Heaven yet. (People do evil things). Maybe it would help to see that you are so blessed to not be married to one of these people. That these guys you've experienced are sooo nto the man to spend the rest of your life with. There is one who will stick around, who will not play games, who will seek God, who will love you, who will not deceive you. He's the only man that matters. Post Reply