Author	Thread: Daily communication
leadbythespirit1 View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 18 Jun, 2012 01:12 PM Okay guys I need to know. The man made first contact. I responded. Everything seemed to be going well. He is talking about a future together yet he does not contact me every day. I am confused. Is it too much to expect a couple of emails in the course of the day? I mean, I would think he would want to start the morning off with at least a hello and then a more meaningful conversation some time later in the day. Am I expecting too much?? Or is there something else going on here? Post Reply
View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 18 Jun, 2012 04:38 PM Yes. It is too much. People have stuff to do. Post Reply
Jett7 View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 18 Jun, 2012 10:47 PM It is too much to expect during the course of one day. Although, considering that this relationship is aiming for long term I would expect a heavy dose of communication. If this occurs frequently I would question whether he's serious or not and his integrity. Post Reply
leadbythespirit1 View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 19 Jun, 2012 06:00 AM Thank you. That is what I was thinking. I am not talking about talking all day. I am just thinking that if a man says he is serious about the relationship he would make to make some form of contact everyday. If I am important to him he will make time for me will he not? Post Reply
sweetspirit500 View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 19 Jun, 2012 09:13 PM I think that you are right..if he's serious with you..he should at least take the effort to email you or something..But of course if he's busy with work..you should give him sometime to reply but at least he replied within a week or so. Due to this is a long distance relationship, a good communication is very important to sustain the relationship. Post Reply
View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 20 Jun, 2012 05:16 AM No. Stop. Everyone sitting around going, "If he _____, he should _____!" Just stop. For some people, once a day communication isn't necessary. For ME it isn't. It doesn't mean the person isn't committed or doesn't care. It could very well mean they're busy and don't feel the need to stay in touch every single day. Especially if this is someone you haven't met in real life. Go talk about it with him. It's completely possible he isn't as into you as you think he is, but speculating about it in a forum and slandering him for not being codependent isn't exactly fair. Post Reply
Samsonoxide View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 21 Jun, 2012 09:06 PM i think it's always good to start your day off with some way of telling the other person you are pursueing that you are thinking of them. But not all guys get that this is important to their wooers. It might be a hard convo, but you should bring this up to him if it bothers you. Telling him that it would mean a lot to you if you heard from him more or spending time is a need for you and not hearing from him for days on end isn't feeding your love-tank...ect. i pray God directs you to the man He wants you to have whether it is this guy or some other man :) God bless! Post Reply
View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 22 Jun, 2012 06:42 AM ...no. Not getting a wake-up text is not reason to break up with somebody. Except that this is an internet relationship so really, any reason could be a reason. But in a real dating relationship? That is absolutely terrible advice. "You didn't wish me good morning, you must not be the one God wants for me!" Guys... this is basic social interaction. Let's be reasonable here. Post Reply
View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 22 Jun, 2012 06:59 AM There is nothing wrong with you discussing your feelings with him so that he might give you a better understanding of what he is thinking. I would try not to be accusatory though. Post Reply
Samsonoxide View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 22 Jun, 2012 09:26 AM that was my opinion, not necessarily advice. i was hopeing she would focus more on opening up to him and talking it through with him. plus this is Ask a Guy forum, not Ask a Girl :P lol Post Reply
View Profile History	Daily communication Posted : 22 Jun, 2012 10:43 AM I can only go by my own character but I believe its important to to show a person that despite a busy life you will always make time to say I love you. . yes people have stuff to do but at what point do you start determining whats more important? Thats like saying your too busy to pray every day !! Post Reply

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