Author	Thread: WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN?
Admin	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 13 May, 2012 09:48 PM What does it mean when my ex boyfriend is so mean to me after the break-up? He was the one who ended it and he already has a new gf. :rolleyes: I have to see him everyday cuz we work together and he just loves pushing my buttons. He wasn't like that before. I;m so lost :rolleyes: Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 14 May, 2012 02:26 AM Maybe he isn't a believer... On the other hand...he had to move on at some point after he broke up with you. You can't expect him to stay single forever. Post Reply
John_O View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 14 May, 2012 11:42 AM Pray about it.... forget about it. and move on. Not usely a good outcome when co-workers date. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 14 May, 2012 12:10 PM There are so many blanks to your post. We don't know what happened, what he was thinking or his motives behind the breakup, was there something unresolved between you two? We can't read his mind, we can't read your mind and watch the events leading to your breakup. Sure I want to be supportive, but "guys are mean" is no different than saying"girls are mean", both are people, both have misunderstandings and demands from eachother(cause of many arguments). If there's one thing I would say of help, is to just ask him..ask him why he is mad, what triggered his reactions? And use your judgement as to whether or not he is justified in his attitude. Have a reasonable and logical conversation with him. If he doesn't, well that's up to him and you. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 14 May, 2012 04:24 PM What does it mean when my ex boyfriend is so mean to me after the break-up? *** Probably that he will be mean to his new girlfriend also :rolleyes:...some people are just "mean"...its a good thing you are not with him anymore...some people really dont know what they want and when thier expectation is not met...they blame the person for not being what they wanted so they break it off and get mad...its them and the way they deal with it...not you...move on...focus on GOD and ask Him to keep to you safe from the "meanies"...God Bless you and Keep you...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 17 May, 2012 01:11 AM Well said. Thank you :glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 17 May, 2012 01:12 AM Yeah, he isn't a believer. And he got a new gf a week after he broke up with me :laugh: pretty fast if you ask me :goofball: Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 17 May, 2012 01:16 AM It's a LONGGGGG story that's why I didn't put it on here. But long story short, we dated for a couple of months and the day we became official, he wanted to do "it". I refused so he broke up with me the next day thru txt saying "I can't do this". I didn't ask anymore questions. I didn't know what his reasons were but I'm assuming that was it. Next thing you know, he's flirting with our other coworkers. Now, we can't even stay civil towards each other because he always has something mean to say. Always calling me "stupid" or "ugly" at work. Always pushing my buttons and he won't stop until I get mad. I talked to him about it and he would occasionally apologize but he would do the same thing few hours so I just gave up and started ignoring him. I just wanted to know why he's doing the things he does. He ended it, why can't he just move on and leave me alone. Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 17 May, 2012 03:03 AM Well his motivation in a relationship is not Christ, so you shouldn't expect Christ-likeness from him. I would recommend choosing wiser next time before a relationship ever begins Post Reply
View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 17 May, 2012 03:06 AM BTW, he is creating a hostile work environment by calling you stupid and ugly and not stopping until you get upset. You should make someone aware of this...Usually bosses will not tolerate this for fear of a lawsuit Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	WHY ARE GUYS SO MEAN? Posted : 18 May, 2012 08:44 AM This is a perfect example of why we are supposed to only date Christians. I'll be the first to admit that most Christian guys are doormats, and you shouldn't settle for some useless guy you don't really like just because he's a Christian and you know you "should" date him, but if you look, you'll be able to find a guy who can connect with you on a much deeper level than any non-Christian guy will ever be able to. After all, Christianity is about so much more than just believing in the Bible and not having sex. Why do you think you date guys who aren't Christians anyways? Is it because you're worried that if you don't settle, you won't find anyone to love you? Is it because a relationship with God isn't that important to you? Is it because you want to "fix" these guys so that they'll have to stay with you? Everybody has their own set of problems, and there's nothing wrong with having them, but addressing them is the only way that anything is ever going to get better. Post Reply

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