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beetlebug63

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What are guys looking for?
Posted : 11 May, 2012 05:56 PM

I am just trying to break back into the dating scene at 52. I think i have made lots of mistakes, including a short marriage. I have strict morals and that has turned some guys off. I love God and will not compromise what I feel is His path for me. I would like to find someone i enjoy spending time with and see where that goes. Is it possible to have get to know someone without an immediate physical relationship?

Thank for your help.

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stormcountry33

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Posted : 12 May, 2012 12:34 AM

My fiance and I met on this site and because she is from the Philippines we couldn't have any kind of a physical relationship and so our relationship was built strictly on friendship first and she really is my best friend. I think its great that you will not compromise your relationship with God for a relationship. Stay strong in that and in time God's perfect will for your life will unfold in front of your eyes and you will be simply amazed at where you are and how He placed you there. :)

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beetlebug63

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Posted : 12 May, 2012 09:22 AM

Thanks stormcountry. Best fof luck to you.

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Tulip89

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Posted : 13 May, 2012 12:59 PM

There are tons of posts almost exactly the same as this one. If you sort through those, I'm sure you'll find plenty of informations that you're looking for.

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Posted : 25 May, 2012 05:34 PM

Yes, it's possible to get a good idea of somebody without seeing each other in person first. I met my now fiancee on here. We got to know each other pretty well before seeing each other. When we finally got to see each other, though, we connected even better than we had previously. You must keep in mind that people tend to have different personas between their online life and their real life. It's not that they deliberately change themselves online to look better, but it's usually because they're less shy behind a screen.



Anyways, what men look for differs from man to man, but there is always that one thing I'm sure most men can agree upon that they want. Most men want to be respected. It's one thing to respect a man, but it's another to show it. I hope I helped some.

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Posted : 29 May, 2012 11:56 AM

We are not looking for a mother. Or someone who will belittle us.



The two greatest things Guys Need. Is respect and a helper.



A woman who will stand by his side even when he is wrong or makes mistakes. Someone who will believe in him. To chear him on. Someone who provide a peaceful envrioment.



A man also wants a woman to be interested in his activities. He also wants a warm body. We like holding our women but it often leads to sexual desires. A smart wife will not be offended when her husband wants her sexually.



Many men if not most want their woman to take care of their selves. We are visual beings much more than women. You caught our eye with your looks and we want a woman who is beautiful to our individual eye.



All the things that I dont think come naturally to women.



I hope this helps :)

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