Author	Thread: Did I do something wrong?
Admin	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 11 May, 2012 12:35 PM I guess we all look for something here. And like many of you most likely, its love. But I like a slow and different approach rather than fast and lets do this now, approach. So I started talking to this one guy, I guess it was sometype of connection, so I asked if there was another way to communicate like messenger/email to facilitate it. And he gave me his email and number, so that was good right. So I chose to email him and not text him, because I like taking things slowly. And we started emailing each other but since he's such a busy guy, he took his time responding. And after just a few days he just didnt and hasnt replied back. His last response was two days ago. And he has now deleted his profile here. I am still confused! What do I do in this case, do I wait, because he is probably really busy? or should I ask him what is going on? Any response helps ;) Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 11 May, 2012 01:18 PM lol, he deleted his account because he found what he was looking for.....so practice your preach,slow down,be patient and he will get back to You in time..... congradulations :D Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 11 May, 2012 05:58 PM Peacnic, I would agree with you if the deleted account went hand in hand with keeping in contact with the OP. I've watched this many times. He's looking for a quick fix to his loneliness, she (and all the other nice girls he has been contacting) are wanting to take it slow and he got bored. He's move on to POF where he can get some action! :toomuch: Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 12 May, 2012 03:18 AM I think u should give him some time, a week perhaps? And if he still doesn't write back then maybe u should forget about him and move on :) Peace, Ken Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 12 May, 2012 08:08 AM OK, if He is a troller?,why not keep this profile and have one at POF,CM,AC and the hundred other online dating sites? Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 12 May, 2012 09:44 AM Proverbs 4:23 "Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life." Whenever I meet someone on here, as exciting as it might be(oh she actually replied! lol...), I must guard my heart, as in... I have to get to know them before I will even have thoughts of a relationship or taking things personally..heh...you get thicker skin as a guy who doesn't hear back from the vast majority of messages, after weeks you move on(get the message that they didn't want progress talking with me, which is fine), and I take it, it's in the Lord's hands, if it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. Also as for this guy, I don't know him, we don't know him, I don't know this situation, I can't judge his thoughts, his actions, etc. But sounds like when someone does not message back or is gradually taking longer to do so, they are trying to break away. I get this too, if someone doesn't reply back though they replied before I take it they aren't interested and that they don't want to tell me upfront(which I can understand it's hard to do ! If you have several messages and you have to click on each one and say "I don't think we'd be a good match"..it'd probably be best to never respond rather then say something that could hurt their feelings? I don't know...?) I'm not saying that's what this guy is trying to do, but from my own experiences with other people on here, it sounds like an occuring tendency. If it is, the only encouraging thing I could say is, leave it in the Lord's hands, I pray for someone who would be mutually interested back, :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 12 May, 2012 09:48 AM P.S. To answer your question, I'd say you did nothing wrong. We can't control other people's reactions/responses. Keep on keeping on sister! Which is why I don't care whether or not I hear back from someone, it'd be nice if I did, but it's also nice to not start something that shouldn't be. Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 12 May, 2012 03:44 PM Yes, there is truth in everything you guys mentioned, and thank you! :D We live in a world of possibilities, options, choices, but at the end of the day... the answer that truly matters is God's. Have a great one and once again thank you!! As for me, I am to follow His will and listen attentatively to His voice. Post Reply
Dannyroc View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 24 May, 2012 09:03 PM Lovelylady, seems to me the guy just lost interest in you or he found more interest in someone else. Jezz louise don't take it personal, it's just the way it works out some time.... actually most of the time ....for most folks I would imagine. Get your fishing pole back in the water girl and see what happens. Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 28 May, 2012 07:26 AM I am confused. Does taking it "slow" mean not texting? If you can text then text. You've got his number and if you are interested in him you should text. As guys we hate having that feeling of "donkey and carrot". Most guys appreciate girls that are straight forward. So pick up that phone, give him a call or text. Post Reply
View Profile History	Did I do something wrong? Posted : 28 May, 2012 07:31 AM Jah, you can only do a one-way conversation for so long. The ball was in his court, he chose not to respond. Next!:applause: Post Reply