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Define "creeper"
Posted : 4 May, 2012 04:24 PM

Ok, so in the past few years, every guy who has showed interest in me has been identified as a "creeper". I have never really heard the term used on girls, though im sure it is entirely possible. What are your thoughts on the term and how would you define a "creeper" as opposed to just a guy who has taken an interest in a girl?

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Posted : 5 May, 2012 12:29 AM

I've had a similar situation that lasted about 3 or 4 years. A guy would come in to my work at least once a week, sometimes more(I used to work at a Walgreens store). He would usually buy something cheap, mainly chips or a can of tea, and go outside and stare through the window at all the female employees...especially at their chests. We've all complained to various managers (once a year all the store managers switch stores) and nothing was done. One girl quit because of him. We never found out his name, but we all call him McCreepy.

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Posted : 5 May, 2012 12:30 AM

I've had a situation with a "creeper" that lasted about 3 or 4 years. A guy would come in to my work at least once a week, sometimes more(I used to work at a Walgreens store). He would usually buy something cheap, mainly chips or a can of tea, and go outside and stare through the window at all the female employees...especially at their chests. We've all complained to various managers (once a year all the store managers switch stores) and nothing was done. One girl quit because of him. We never found out his name, but we all call him McCreepy.

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Posted : 7 May, 2012 12:16 PM

Creeper: a guy who does NOT listen when you very politeily tell him you are Not interested.



I had a guy I was at first interested in, but he would Never call me and just started showing up at my house at random hours. That is creepy.

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Posted : 10 May, 2012 07:02 AM

find the truth,confront these peoples,if they flee? Yay! if they stand their ground,you have made a incorrect judgement....

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Posted : 23 Jun, 2012 04:23 AM

I don't know any women who are creeps as they relate to me. I've seen the rare few who are creepy (such as the woman who breastfeeds her son til he's six).



But the closest thing I can think of when I'm dating are the women who are super-needy or desperate, or weird--like grossly immature for their age. And I don't mean just spontaneous and fun like suddenly runs through a sprinkler when on a date--but can't hold a conversation, is majorly air headed, is psycho-jealous, etc.



Or has a bad attitude (man hater or plain old B_.).



Now, as to how women define "creepy" seems to me more of a function of whether they think the guy is cute or not (in other words, if she's not interested, he's a creep).



I've gotta say, though, that I've known many old couples (married for 20-70 years) who will tell you that *she* didn't like *him* at all and wouldn't go out with him. But he kept pursuing her and just to get him to shut up she said "OK, fine. You can take me out but I'm not going to like it."



It's too bad that men are not allowed to pursue a woman anymore without the risk of being called a creeper or stalker.



(I hope it's obvious that I'm not including the Walgreens guy who stares at women's chests)

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Posted : 28 Oct, 2012 02:58 PM

Ive really struggled with the difference between allowing a man to pursue me...because there is a big difference between pursuing and stalking..but i typically define creeper by unwanted pursuit...for instance I would consider it disrespectful for a guy to continue pursuit when my feelings have been clearly and openly communicated. I think it is ok to pursue a lady..but I think there are attributes about HOW a girl is pursued that can also lead to the title "creeper" such as too much too soon.

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