Author	Thread: Numbers
Admin	Numbers Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 04:58 AM I don't want to generalize. This is an isolated example in my life. Why do guys send good emails to establish great rapport, ask for a girl's number and then forget to call? It seems to me that a good rapport would continue through with phone calls and eventually a meeting in person. Am I wrong in my assessment? Guys, do you have any thoughts on this? Post Reply
View Profile History	Numbers Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 12:51 PM I wouldn't ask for someone's number unless I planned to call it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Numbers Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 04:31 PM I'm with ^. That's just mean, and unnecessary. Post Reply
View Profile History	Numbers Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 06:37 PM Given that you guys state the obvious, is a girl then supposed to make an effort to call and chat (we have exchanged numbers already),or wait for a call. Do you want your girl to be proactive or reactive? Post Reply
View Profile History	Numbers Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 06:40 PM I think initiative gets generalized to men too much sometimes. If you have the number, call him. You've got nothing to lose and only God-knows-what to gain. I believe in taking initiative with my own wants and desires (easier said than done, I know), but I know that I like it when others take initiative with me, as well. Post Reply
View Profile History	Numbers Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 07:45 PM Thanks for the advice. Post Reply
View Profile History	Numbers Posted : 5 Apr, 2012 04:08 AM Thanks everyone. We are continuing conversations over phone and e-mail pretty regularly right now. Post Reply
View Profile History	Numbers Posted : 5 Apr, 2012 08:36 AM It is a far more confusing game than I think it was ever meant to be! I wish you all the best iheartdogs, and whether this guy is 'it' or not, that God brings you someone who will stand by you and whom you can stand by! :yay: Post Reply