Author	Thread: MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention?
KristenJJ View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 27 Mar, 2012 08:42 PM I am wondering from the men on here... What catches your attention most on a woman's profile? I know men are visual so yes pictures are important...but beyond that? What are things that make you interested in messaging a woman? Is it a many things or something in particular that usually stands out to you? I sometimes ask the men who message me what stood out to them most about my profile...and I get interesting answers. So, guys? Post Reply
View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 28 Mar, 2012 06:33 PM well i think that everyone knows that answer including you if you want the real deal.. focus on real ... and if you want someone like you.. then give them the girly honest to goodness you.. you will only get the weird ones which google everything or you will get the honest to goodness guys that are out there... as a rule birds of a feather ... together. let them see what kind of morality you approve of in the friends whose company you keep. that will be the real test .. and if you want godly friends .. just be that kind of friend. and if you don't know what that is ask me and i'll steer ya in the right direction. god bless. :bow: Post Reply
fiferic View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 29 Mar, 2012 04:50 PM For me personally, I like a short profile but not too short. What you like and what you are looking for. Post Reply
View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 30 Mar, 2012 06:12 AM I prefer profiles that actually say a bit about who they are. What kind of music the person's into, what they're doing with their life, what they're looking for and what they value. I see way too many profiles that are pretty much: "Hi. I'm Ashley. I am a easy-going Christian girl who loves God very much and I'm looking for that one guy I can marry." That's it. I'm like, really? I know nothing about you, except the fact that you want to marry a guy. I can't even try to pick something I found interesting out to try and talk about, ya know? Now I don't want some two-page long microsoft word document letter uploaded into the profile but maybe like, 2-3 short paragraphs. Post Reply
View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 06:46 PM I like a good read. I want enough to get a glimpse of someone's personality and maybe a tiny bit of soul. Passion about something catches my attention. Obviously, too much could be posted on something so public, but I want more than a list of typical traits that everyone generalizes to him or her self by virtue of wishing they were that characteristic. Even in the case of those characteristics being true of a person, how interesting is this? "I'm honest, responsible, God is first in my life, etc." While it's all important, I take those as "given," concerning things I'm looking for. They are bread, a great source of nutrition; but connections/relationships (of any kind) cannot be built on bread alone. Post Reply
fiferic View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 2 Apr, 2012 08:48 PM KristenJJ I just read your profile. I think it is good. You have a good length and enough detail for me that is. Post Reply
RAC_Soldier View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 10 Apr, 2012 03:46 PM Many things, interesting looks, similar interests and interest in growing in Christ for me. Post Reply
View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 17 Apr, 2012 09:06 AM humm? i am a sucker for long,straight,dark hair:applause: so my bestest suggestion is,if a fella has viewed Your profile,message Him....as we live in a day of equal rights and us fellas are sitting back,,waiting for You Ladies to step up and have Your fair share of chase,rejection,chase,rejection,cuz thats what it is like for us and You have equal opportunity to experience the same now:ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	MEN- Profiles? What grabs your attention? Posted : 21 Apr, 2012 01:20 AM Lots of information. The more the better. Write an autobiography if you want to. It saves me a lot of time wasted on asking questions if I already know a lot about you. One of the things that irks me most on this site are the women that think all guys want to see are your photos. Post Reply