Author	Thread: Honest answer to an age-old question please!
Admin	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 21 Mar, 2012 02:27 PM Are looks important to a guy? I've always been about average in the way I look and I seem to be over-looked. I have no complaints about the way I look, after all that's how God made me. However, I can't help but wonder if guys don't pay little to no attention to me because I don't look like a supermodel or whatever. Thanks & God bless Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 21 Mar, 2012 05:50 PM SweetCherryBlossom, I'm not a guy, but Ima answer that question for you. You are beautiful. Sometimes though, the Lord will allow us to be/feel overlooked because it humbles us. Who knows what the future holds. If He allowed hundreds of men to flatter you, would that stroke your ego? Might you slip into pride? I say that because I've been on both sides of the fence. The lack of confidence in myself, being overly confident in myself, when at the end of the day it's about having confidence in Him. God knows what He's doing and at the right time you will catch the right guy's attention. Like my mama always says, "You don't need everybody to like you, just the right one!" You are beautiful and the more confident you become in the Lord, and the way He designed you, the more your beauty will radiate. I'm speaking from experience. God bless! Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 24 Mar, 2012 09:37 PM Yes, to some degree, looks are important to guys. But at the same time, really attractive looking women have just as much trouble in dating as unattractive women do, because really attractive women have tons of attractive looking guys giving them attention, and yet possibly none of the attractive guys they bump into for years on end will be a good potential marriage candidate. This can cause disillusionment because the fairy tale that "the first super attractive guy that makes you laugh must be your prince" gets broken over and over, and it causes the attractive women to have to question what it is that they are supposed to be looking for. That said, it's a matter of patience for 99.9% of us, so ur not alone. Be glad that you don't have to worry about stalkers as much. Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 25 Mar, 2012 03:34 AM SweetCherryBlossom...I think looks are truly in the eye or the beholder...I know that sounds cliche (I think that's the right word...haha!) I met my fiance on this site and while I don't feel like I am a very attractive man, to her I am. :) She has said before that she doesn't feel that beautiful but to me....she is absolutely gorgeous! I think if you find that special someone....you will find things attractive in both his character and his physical traits as well as he will find attractive qualities about you in both your character and the physical sense.... Post Reply
View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 28 Mar, 2012 12:56 PM Some good replys! Ms. Blossoms...you are a very pretty woman. That is my Opinion. If you seem to have a problem meeting men...it may have to do with your Height. 6 feet is...well...tall for a woman. I am sure that you find yourself "looking down" to most men. So...this just means that it make take a bit longer for you to "find" that right man. As to your Question...Yes! Men do find themselves attracted initially by "Looks". But...here in lies the Rub...Beauty is Truly in the "Eye of the Beholder"! So...Believe that God Loves you and that you are "Beautiful in His Sight" and that sense of Peace will Build a Confidence in your Heart that will SHINE through your Eyes and make you irrisistable to Men! Believe me...a Woman that Smiles through her Eyes is Intoxicating and that only happens when The Holy Spirit is ALLOWED to Shine through your Eyes. Peace Be With You! Post Reply
thatdinosaur View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 7 Apr, 2012 04:33 PM 6 ft! I wish I was 6 ft. My mom is 6'1, my dad is 6, everyone else is above 5'10 but I turned out 5'6. Don't let height get in the way, seriously. I think my mom feels guilty sometimes that she is taller, but my dad doesn't care at all; nothing much bothers him, not even if she made more money than him ( a stupid traditional view I think anyways ) Everyone's in the same boat looking for people and I don't know about you, but when I look for someone I look for interesting, not for normal cookie cutter man. If you learn to love someone, I think you will love the unique qualities about them because it makes them stand apart. Similarly, a man should find the surprising parts about you endearing too. If you don't think it shows through photo, show your personality through mail, make things to talk about that come easy, and have a good profile to start a conversation with. I'm not all that popular on here either but I list everything I like to talk about on my profile to make it easy for the mens. Post Reply
View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 9 Apr, 2012 10:11 AM I never thought of my height as an issue. I like being as tall as I am, as that's how God made me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 17 Apr, 2012 09:24 AM are looks important? considering whether You are happy or mad at them,You are going to have to look at them eventually... however i believe how they feel in Your arms should be more important than how they look to Your eyes :excited: Post Reply
View Profile History	Honest answer to an age-old question please! Posted : 21 Apr, 2012 01:25 AM Yes looks are important but not the most important thing. I would rather marry an average-looking woman that is a strict Christian instead of a supermodel fake Christian. Post Reply