Author	Thread: What Turns you on?
mary3777 View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 11 Mar, 2012 05:11 AM If I can find a God fearing man on this site that will lead to a relationship, I'd like to keep him forever, what can you advice to turn on a man, how can I keep his eyes and thoughts just for me alone? What should a woman do to keep the relationship exciting and interesting? Post Reply
View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 11 Mar, 2012 09:35 AM You're approaching it from a worldly perspective; they say that if you tire of someone you should move on and find someone else. God doesn't allow that attitude so a God-fearing person shouldn't be looking elsewhere in the first place. Of course, for the marriage to be a happy one, both need to satisfy each other in many ways - sex being just one - and how they achieve that will be different for every couple. I could tell you what turns me on but there'd be no point because we're not in a relationship and whoever you go with will likely be different. That and I'm not willing to divulge such personal info to strangers, let alone in a public forum! Post Reply
View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 11 Mar, 2012 05:14 PM For her to respect me with as much fervor as I love her. "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her," Eph 5:25 Post Reply
View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 11 Mar, 2012 10:54 PM DKJ2 the 55 gave you some good advice. I feel that you are serious about being sexually attractive to your Husband and wanting to �Know� what things �Turn� men on�but you also need to Realize that Sex is something that occurs in the Mind or at least�it should be. What �Turns a man on� is whatever triggers his Libido. There are Physical Triggers and there are those that reside in the Mind. Men that rely solely on Physical Triggers are the ones that are more susceptible to �Straying�. First seek the Kingdom of God� Matthew 6:33 New International Version (NIV) 33 �But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness,�� �and then your Spouse. Using The Holy Scriptures and being led by The Holy Spirit�you will find that man that will Love you for Whom You Are! That man will be �Turned On� by the Woman he Loves. It will not be a Physical Trigger�but a Spiritual One. It may be as simple as the Sound of your Voice or the way your Smile gets uneven or the way your Eyes Light Up when you Smile or Your Laugh! Whatever it is�it is Simply LOVE that �Turns� him on. Don�t worry about what �The World� tells you will �Turn Your Man On�. Seek God�s Kingdom First! All else will follow. God Bless You! PS I want to leave you with this. Spiritual Love is all about "The Heart". It is when a "Simple Kiss" from the "One you Love" is Miraculuos! �Kisses blown are kisses wasted." "Kisses aren't kisses unless they're tasted." "Kisses spread germs and germs are hated." "So kiss me baby; cause I'm vaccinated.� Post Reply
View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 12 Mar, 2012 12:42 PM i wish i could tell You what to do.....i cannot.... so i will share what not to do :D Do Not Forget men are rather simple creatures with simple vocabulary..... Do Not over think everything Your man say's.... (example: You say," Sweety what You want for dinner?" he reply's ," I Don't Care." please do not take this,I dont care, as a reference to the entire relationship,He is only refering to dinner,He will eat what ever You give Him) Do Not freak out because He looks at other ladies... He is just looking.... Do Not NAG.... If You asked Him to do something,and He said HE will do it? HE will.....eventually,maybe next month.... hope this helps? p.s.i guess the trick is not to keep the man,but, not to drive Him away? Post Reply
View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 12 Mar, 2012 09:14 PM Well, every man is different in what 'turns him on.' In a general sense, men like feeling needed, and usually we say what we mean, and we mean what we say. So, don't take something simple as a response and try to look too deep into it. When we say you look fine, we're not implying you're overweight, your hair is messy, and there is a bit of food on your cheek. We'd say those if we felt like we needed to. In terms of sexually and physically though, you probably shouldn't really be asking that question. I mean, it's all fine and dandy in intent I understand, but if you ask that, and a dude tells you and you use it around him, he will be tempted to do things that normally he wouldn't. It's just inviting the flesh to have a greater degree of control over the spirit that dwells within us. But, to answer your question, if a lady wants to get me raunchy, all she has to do is some real light touches on the shoulders, back, collar, and some scalp rubbing. I know it sounds odd, but something about a woman running her hands through my hair, (I know my pictures don't show a lot of it :P) really gets me going. And I'm very sensitive to touch all the time. Post Reply
dove_serpent View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 13 Mar, 2012 03:43 AM lol. if i'm not mistaken Mary's question has nothing to do with sex, guys. she uses the words "turn on" as the opposite of "turn off" which means lose one's interest or disgust. she's simply asking how to captivate or attract a man. :laugh: it's very unusual for a filipina woman, especially of a christian one, to ask such a thing:glow: believe me, it's only "wrong choice of words". :yay: Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 13 Mar, 2012 06:52 AM Good answer Archimedes! :applause: Post Reply
mary3777 View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 14 Mar, 2012 03:10 PM Thanks for the answer.Do u think I am asking about SEX? Read it again.... Post Reply
mary3777 View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 14 Mar, 2012 03:11 PM Thank you for the answer.I like this.Respect him.Every one needs respect.Ok I keep this advice.God bless Post Reply
mary3777 View Profile History	What Turns you on? Posted : 14 Mar, 2012 03:14 PM Thanks Post Reply

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