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WANTED new FRIENDSHIP
Posted : 19 Feb, 2012 07:38 PM

Hello I am 44.

I am not sexy and I am not attractive.

Is there any Genuine Christian man who would like to be my good friend?

Thank you for taking your time reading this.

GOD BLESS your heart.

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Posted : 20 Feb, 2012 06:44 PM

You don't look unnattractive

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Posted : 20 Feb, 2012 10:57 PM

I agree. You seem like a pretty girl. I'd suggest to get friends don't post negative stuff about yourself. Concentrate on the good things. Don't say I'm not attractive, but instead, for example, say, I love to meet people or I'm shy at first, but then very talkative.

I know you didn't ask for advice, but when your post didn't sound very inviting, so I thought I'd give a little advice to you.

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2012 08:29 AM

:applause:

I am only testing the guys. Most guys that I knew religious or not, they are looking for an outside personalities. No wonder why there are many broken hearts out there. Beautiful women left them. Thank you pjh53.

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2012 08:42 AM

Thank you I OnlyDateCheerLeaders.

I think I am in between.

I am looking for people who do not have high expectations.



Guys who are not looking for perfections.

This is a Christian�s website, but not all people are truthful.

I am hoping that I can meet good people here.



Thanks again.:purpleangel:

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Posted : 29 Feb, 2012 06:17 AM

Wow.... this is unbelievably depressing and negative. Don't look for guys "without high expectations." and don't settle for less than that for yourself.

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Posted : 29 Feb, 2012 01:09 PM

Thank you for your reply Ms. goggirl23



��depressing and negative,� are not the right word Ms. godsgirl23.



For me it is AWAKENING to the reality of what the people are being overlooked when finding a new partner. We thought (men or women) that because someone did something wrong to us, we need to become perfectionist in looking for a new partner. Telling ourselves, I will never find someone like you again. I agree, we need to become smart in finding our new partner. Unfortunately, we are over protecting ourselves. Others are looking for outside beauties such as being sexy, thin, beautiful, handsome, athletic, etc.



How about the overweight women, bald, ugly, disable, & other unfortunates, can somebody like them?



Like I said, it is a test of personality.

There are people that more qualified to be loved.

We are rejecting and hurting them.

According to the bible, "The Lord doesn�t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart, (1 Samuel 16:7).�



It is awaking, in order to focus on FINDING a partner not by the outside look, but who is she/he inside.

The past is holding us, making us all more imperfect.



According to the bible, �For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins (Matthew 6:14-15).



Love should not discriminate someone. THANKS AGAIN.

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Posted : 29 Feb, 2012 01:39 PM

@OP:



Wrong. You ARE sexy and you ARE attractive. But don't take my word for it (it's only my opinion and what's that really worth?) - God thinks so too!:hearts:



Having said that, if it's just friends you want, read the later postings about this on the forum so that you know what to expect and don't get discouraged.

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Posted : 29 Feb, 2012 07:34 PM

Thanks dkj255

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