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Admin	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 25 Jan, 2012 08:12 PM What do men look for in a woman? I am talking everything from values to looks. Be honest! Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 25 Jan, 2012 10:48 PM looks-wise? someone i am physically attracted to. not going to lie. i'm a human, and i believe that God is going to have my future wife someone I am attracted to. this doesn't mean she has to be the most beautiful girl out there, but if she's the one, there's no doubt I am going be attracted to her looks. personality: faithful to God first and foremost, that may sound cliche, but it is true. I also want a girl who has a similar personality (can dish out jokes, can take them, sarcastic), similar values in family and more. it's hard to say. don't just take my word--everyone has different things they look for. Post Reply
FocusIsEverything View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 25 Jan, 2012 11:25 PM compatibility in beliefs looks similar interests i dont care about race nationality or even a voice accent i just want to agree in beliefs, like similar stuff, and be attracted to her (she doesnt have to be beautiful to most guys just beautiful to me) Post Reply
onnylestari View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 26 Jan, 2012 12:12 AM I agree with writing and opinion Merseylee. Very difficult find a man be honest. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 26 Jan, 2012 12:26 AM I have always fancied tall dark and handsome and I have a thing for bone structure a strong jaw lol. But in terms of values, spirituality etc I want someone who has a covenant with God and actually keeps it, then I know by this example that they would take the covenant we make with one another to heart. I want a prayer warrior someone who is not negative but stands upon God's word and leaves no room for doubt or compromise. A true priest of the home, someone I will not only honor because the bible commands it but because I am so in love with them too. I love to laugh so someone with a sense of humor. I don't believe I have to state things like kindness, honesty etc because if he is a true follower of Christ these traits or fruits will be made manifest. I'm not a clingy person and believe that everyone needs me time so I'd hope he'd be the same. Especially if football (soccer) season is in full swing lol! Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 27 Jan, 2012 07:46 AM Thanks for all your responses, all your answers sound like what I am looking for as well. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 28 Jan, 2012 11:07 PM a flat tummy is NICE :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 30 Jan, 2012 09:16 AM I will start with visual first since that is what initially attacts us to someone. Honestly, the first thing I look at are the eyes. A woman with kind, gentle eyes is what I look for. Physical beauty fades. Women's bodies change with age and having children, so I couldnt care less about that. Maybe it is because I received most of my upbringing and religious instruction from my mother and grandmother. I look for someone who is devout. Someone of good moral character. I also look for someone who has been in church for most or all of their lives. Not someone who just started going to church because they believe they can find a good man there. I do not want an ex-prostitute, or their non-professional counterpart, that "got religion". No former drug addicts or drunkards. As my grandmother once told me "a woman who drinks will do anything". Also, some STD's have long term effects, such as birth defects. According to research, one in four women have been exposed to an STD. She should also be obedient to God and place God above all things. I am also looking for a very Conservative woman. A woman conservative in all things, such as how she dresses, religious, social, and political. Dont get me wrong, I do not think women are chattel. I just believe that if men and women held each other to a higher standard, God's standard, this world and our personal lives, this world would be a must better place. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 31 Jan, 2012 10:15 PM As far as looks she just has to be attractive in some way. I mean I don't have a particular type physically but I know what I like. I have to feel comfortable around her. I like sweet, kind girls. Not real flashy and flaunting everything they have to the world. I like a girl who is friendly, laid back, has a sense of humor and has a passion for the Lord. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you really look for in a partner? Posted : 19 Mar, 2012 04:13 PM okedokie well i first believe that the first question before this is how moral am i, and am i ok with this level in my future mate. second. question well how does she socialize in my group of friends. by that i mean the people that state who i am and what kind of person i am aiming to be in all of life's aspects ie wether im serous or fun its very important that i get her 90 % of the time and she gets me close that same figure and still be ourselves as we grow together. if you have any thing to ad to this please write me or ad to this post. and thankyou all for your own contributions. God bless you all for using the good sence he gave you. i cant say the same across the board. .. how sad yet we can share the lite to those who want it Post Reply