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GenuineBeauty

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 06:58 AM

Why is being a virgin a turn-off for most men? I believe that sex was created by God to be enjoyed within marriage, not with every person you date.

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liz_kulet

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 07:33 AM

I also believe that sex was created by God to be enjoyed within marriage, not with every person you date. But sad to say that is a big turn off for most men. I don't know what are their reasons why they act like that...:(((

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 08:59 AM

I doubt it is a turn off on this site, probably more secular it is, for obvious reasons.

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 01:31 PM

Why would a virgin want to share with " most men" that she is a virgin? Most men are unGodly, and would love the thought of taking her virginity. I believe that some topics should not be discussed so readily to " most men". A woman should really consider what is going on in her spirit, if he finds herself intrigued enough to talk about this topic with " most men" she encounters. One's virginity is not a common topic of public display, to be discussed with "most men", but rather, a private position of sacred loyalty to Godly purity and modesty.



There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried

woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both

in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of

the world, how she may please her husband.



SELAH

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 01:37 PM

It is? I thought it was the opposite. Most men had no problem with it while most women consider it a turn-off.

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 01:53 PM

It's not a turn off; though some men may prefer a 'more experienced' woman when it comes to sex. As you're only dating (and from the sound of it still a virgin) that's not yet relevant to you.

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2012 04:30 PM

Thank you DevotedLove.



I think its promiscuous for an individual to divulge that information.



When girls who are, do-- sometimes it means they're trying to get attention. And that is a sure way to get attention--from creeps, albeit.

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Posted : 14 Jan, 2012 07:29 AM

I agree with you DevotedLove,



Such information should be kept a secret...

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Posted : 14 Jan, 2012 09:25 AM

i would not say it is a turn-off, as a majority of teen males got "cougared" by that Lady down the street,and do not feel worthy of relationship with a virgin.

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Posted : 14 Jan, 2012 01:51 PM

God bless you both Vivere and Sunshinesoblessed, and thank God for your willingness to speak on this matter.



You both are correct, and I totally agree as well. It is very promiscuous and totally inappropriate for a person to be revealing or discussing such private and personal information about themselves or others in this manner.



It is the carnal uncovering of one's self, outside

of the holiness of Godly betrothal (engagement).

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Posted : 15 Jan, 2012 01:58 AM

I agree that at some point this kind of topic shouldn't be discussed publicly. But I think as Christians we shouldn't judge those women as they're just being promiscuous and that their just trying to get an attention. They are just those women who just in their curiosity and are trying to asked opinions to others and not to be accused as a women who tries to get attention.



I believe that everyone of us has their own experience in life that made them who they are right now. We all have been through some tough moment.



I respect everyone's opinion, whether it is positive or negative. But one thing that a person should be proud of is being not a judgmental one. So let's try to dig dipper always because not all of us have undergone same experiences.

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