Author	Thread: Age difference
Admin	Age difference Posted : 9 Feb, 2009 08:36 PM Tell me why would a guy say three years over his age is too old for me but 9 years less than that is great! I guess it is ego driving this fellow as he obviously wants a younger woman. I know people who date alot younger male, but I guess it depends on the individual and his religious background. Post Reply
kidvid711 View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 06:21 AM I think he values beauty for the most part. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 09:17 AM There are a lot of women on here that do the same thing. Many who will not even accept one their own age. I used to wonder the same thing, but figured they weren't ready to give up that worldly thinking yet. Oh well, they are the ones missing out. Blessings, Leon Post Reply
View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 10 Feb, 2009 09:35 AM Kristine, I've found in my research, that older men who like dating younger women ten to twenty and some thirty years younger than they are, are usually impotent by all means and definition of the word. The younger women makes them LOOK and FEELl young, its all in their minds LOL... Remember, men are visual beings, so whatever looks good on the outside to others, makes them feel good on the inside(lifts their self-esteem), even when nothing is happening...if its looks good, it makes them feel good:yay: Kid, you're right, they are after the beauty... and in some cases, the younger woman doesn't have to be beautiful, just as long as she is young. Its again, the thought... LOL! Seldom do you find older men dating women who are older than they are, as I said, impotence in thought LOL. But there are younger men who are mature, dating older women, and some young men will not date women in their age groupings, because the younger women are not mature and so many have issues... There are also some women who refuse to date older men and love the company of the younger man... so it works both ways... just keep your search going, go to the NEXT TEN!....:yay: ella Post Reply
Praisebassist8706 View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 11 Feb, 2009 07:04 PM A lot of it depends on the man and what he's looking for. Many girls oblige to dating an older guy because they feel financial security or (within reasonable age) like the fact that they are so attractive to older guys. Personally, I nearly date women older than me, but dislike dating girls more than 1 year younger than me. The differences in maturity are very apparent to me, even though that can be a relative situation. It really is a person-by-person basis where you can't just generalize....but most guys dating women that are almost a decade younger than them rarely means good intentions. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 12 Feb, 2009 03:02 PM I would say 3 years over me is too much, and 9 years younger is great. Not when I was 21, though. It's ideal to marry a younger woman--more babies, more likely she has not been defiled, maybe more pliable as opposed to being rigid intellectually...many great girls are taken by the time they are 25. I am 28. I find more likely candidates at 19 than 31. I think, "single, never dated" is more attractive than divorced, has children, been with 5 men, etc. And none of this is about looks. Marriage is a liberty and highly preferential. Everyone has theirs; we can't presume sin upon people for preferences. All that said, if God showed me a wonderful 31 year old, I would be all ears. David Post Reply
View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 2 Mar, 2009 07:24 PM i am not at all interested in men who are younger than me.and being a God fearing man is number 1 on the list! however, i think about 5-10 years older is a pretty good age gap--i am looking at maturity...i really like that in a man...so right now i am just waiting on the Lord to bring me a husband-or him to find me!:hearts: Post Reply
View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 8 Jul, 2009 08:11 AM I agree it is more about looks but looks aren't all that should matter when looking for a mate maturaty should matter more but in the world today that isn't the case I look for 3-10 older because I can see the diffrence in maturaty but if one my own age came along that would be fine but for now I'll let God lead me Post Reply
Praisebassist8706 View Profile History	Age difference Posted : 14 Sep, 2009 11:55 PM Well said, Brother! From the heart, ladies, most guys just want a girl that hasn't run around constantly. I cannot count on my fingers, toes, or any other appendages I own how many girls have gone off to college and lost their minds (in addition to other things) while they were off there. Most of these girls don't consider that what they are doing now is not attractive to guys who wouldnt want to marry them and not just hook up with them at a party because they are drunken. I'm nearly 22 and I'm starting to go back on my rule about only dating a year younger than myself for those same reasons mentioned above. Post Reply