Author	Thread: 20 KIDS?????
Admin	20 KIDS????? Posted : 2 Jan, 2012 06:31 PM I have a question for all of you christian men out there.How do you feel about having a large family?It has been a dream of mine for quite some time to adopt as well as have biological children.Iwould really like to adopt kids with special needs as weel.Is that a scary thing for men? Post Reply
Rixter3 View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 2 Jan, 2012 08:30 PM Not so much scary, but it seems very expensive to me to raise such a family. You need a really big house with many rooms, bathrooms and special care appliances. You need a bus or at least 2 or 3 really big cars. Imagine the food and drink that is needed. All children need attention and toys. I don't think that many men wil share this dream, but one never knows. It seems to me, that husband and wife can share little quality time together, no time for reading, writing, going out, etc. It will ben 24/7 with kids around you. Seems very exhausting to me. Anyway, try to find a rich man, maybe he is interested. :waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 3 Jan, 2012 07:53 AM I wouldn't mind a big family personally, but 20? Yeah that's a bit much financially. I've always held the notion I'd have 3-5 kids if God wills it. I'm 3rd of 4 in my generation, I couldn't stand having only 1-2 kids. Post Reply
View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 3 Jan, 2012 08:47 AM For me it is something that God has layed on my heart and there is no denying it.If God asks us to do something he will take care of the details. His WILL His BILL!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 3 Jan, 2012 09:48 AM if it is," HIS Will ?" i'm down with this, to resist HIS Will is a act of complete futility... Post Reply
Statie View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 4 Jan, 2012 04:53 PM I would love a large family--but the number of children I have would definitely depend on my ability to feed, clothe and provide shelter for them. A 20-kid family might require income from a reality TV show--oh hey, that's already being done isn't it? :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 5 Jan, 2012 08:51 AM I agree with the argument of being able to feed,clothe,and shelter all of the children you bring into your home.That is something that I have thought long and hard about so I am taking steps now to provide for my future childre's future. HaHa reality show, I sure do love the Duggars....LOL!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 11:41 AM i wouldn't mind a large family, but as they said it's a lot of work. especially with special needs children with the package. Post Reply
View Profile History	20 KIDS????? Posted : 16 Jan, 2012 12:04 PM I am aware that it will be a lot of work, but that is something that I am looking forward to doing.I believe that there is nothing greater than loving a child regardless of how much work they may or may not be.I think that children are beautiful and amazing no matter what, and I thank God everyday for giving me the ability to do so!!! Post Reply