Author	Thread: what makes you say hi ?
Admin	what makes you say hi ? Posted : 15 Dec, 2011 08:15 PM I'm curious, what makes guys want to answer a gir's profile ? Is it all about looks, or what she says, age or what ? Post Reply
View Profile History	what makes you say hi ? Posted : 16 Dec, 2011 08:33 AM For me it's a little of all. If the profile is empty--i don't say anything. if there's no physical attraction--I don't say anything Also, what the profile says does wonders. Stress what you are looking for, what is good about you, and give the readers a reason to message you. Post Reply
View Profile History	what makes you say hi ? Posted : 16 Dec, 2011 10:24 PM Thankyou for the advice and for replying. Post Reply
View Profile History	what makes you say hi ? Posted : 20 Dec, 2011 04:42 PM For myself, physical attraction does matter, but is less important than who a person is. Can't really say what works on here since I decided a while ago that online dating really isn't for me, but I can give you my real life experiences. There have been many times I have started a conversation with a very attractive woman, and within minutes lost all attraction I had for her. On the other side of the coin, there have been women I've known who I had no physical attraction for but upon talking to them found myself very attracted. Alas most of those were already taken lol. Sorry to ramble, I hope it helps! Post Reply
View Profile History	what makes you say hi ? Posted : 22 Dec, 2011 02:45 PM Thanks Post Reply
cowboybuck1969 View Profile History	what makes you say hi ? Posted : 23 Dec, 2011 02:14 PM I'm guilty of doing more than my fair share of profile browsing around this site, and yes... to view a profile of someone... alot of times... all you have is a picture to sort who you view and who you pass by. I would say that for me to stop and actually write a personal note to someone would require one or more of a few things.. a. the person is/seems interesting enough that I'd ask a question to try to know them a little better b. I find the person attractive AND there is something stated in their profile that I just had to ask OR I feel compelled enough by reading what they said to pass on a note... (i.e. I have read a few profiles that were quite moving about some hardship or other experience... where I had to at least say something... even if I had 0 interest in the person) c. the person states enough information so that I have some hint of who I am speaking to. A pretty face might get me to click the box, but give me a reason to say something other than 'hi' That would be pointless to just say 'hi' d. there might be a picture in a profile that is unusual or striking enough where I just have to ask... 'is that really what I think it is?' Again, it might have nothing to do with attraction, but just about something interesting that I had to ask All in all, the more I have to read, the more likely I am to find something worth asking... if that helps any Post Reply
View Profile History	what makes you say hi ? Posted : 6 Jan, 2012 01:16 PM I think the content of what is said on the profile is more important than physical appearance. I like to read substance and learn more about the person. I tried to write my profile to show a glimmer of who I am. Take care. God bless. Cathy Post Reply