Author	Thread: Puff they are gone
Admin	Puff they are gone Posted : 26 Nov, 2011 08:51 PM What's up with men offering their personal email address on the first contact to me. I had another man do this again today. I say lets get to know one another here on CDFF for a few days and then Puff they are gone. Isn't this a friendship Christian site? :excited: Puff the magic dragons!!!:laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 26 Nov, 2011 10:06 PM I saw someone's profile that literally said something really weird. It read that he was apparently as repulsive in person as in online. Well, a better (updated and smiling) photo would help a little. Also, to know his worth in Christ and not measure it by the world's standard. He seemed to lack a lot of something. It was really sad. Post Reply
Statie View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 27 Nov, 2011 05:23 AM Honestly Heartdog--what does your post have to do with Angels thread?--lol :ROFL: And Angel--what is up with all the unwritten rules you have about what a male should or shouldn't do when initially contacting a female? Who cares if he offers up his personal email-- Giving you a point of contact other than this site doesn't invalidate this as a christian site nor does it invalidate him as a christian. Why not look at it for what it is--an expression of interest. There are a myriad of reasons why a guy might suggest correspondence off this site and not necessarily with some evil-doer intent. You women have soooooooo many unwritten rules (that seemingly change dependent upon the mood of the female at the time) regarding how a male contacts you and what he should or should not express in that correspondence it's no wonder males sit back scratching their head in confusion. If you all just got together--maybe held a convention worked out a unified mission statement, rule book and code of ethical behavior you require from potential interested males maybe then the guys that actually read the rule book (we like pictures so be sure to include a few of those) might garner a greater understanding of just what the heck you woman actually want! :ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL::ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 27 Nov, 2011 09:06 AM What does my post have to do with guys giving out personal info in the first contact? My post was to show the complete opposite, someone who is not even trying to contact people. Apparently he views himself to badly that believes nobody would want to correspond with him. Moreover, this is not a paid site. There is no danger or expiring memberships. There is no need to turn into private emails and phone numbers right away. Eventually, yes, but not right away. Have you not read other boards of women that have posted getting naked pictures of guys, or asking for those pictures from them? That is why communication on the site is favored, not just be some females on this site, but recommended by the administration of this site. Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 27 Nov, 2011 11:38 AM Perhaps the guys want your email address for other reasons. Some of them might be scammers, or might have control issues and want access to people's email addresses so they can try to find them on places like facebook. I wouldn't do it. If they are worthwhile, they will stay in contact. Post Reply
View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 27 Nov, 2011 06:49 PM Gourd00 Thank you, that was a very mature answer. Iheartdogs thank you for your repsonse I understand why you shared that, and it was a good reply. State has a smart mouth...:laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 28 Nov, 2011 12:00 PM being one of the odd balls here, i know i will never get a date here,basically because i live near the middle of nowhere, so this is kinda a "Christian Single's Support Group " more than a dating site for me, it kinda bums me out that they have the "settings" cuz their are alot of ladies i would like to EmailBuddy with but cannot because ,i too young,too old, smoker :ROFL::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 28 Nov, 2011 05:32 PM Maybe you can start them meetings for that support group! Post Reply
View Profile History	Puff they are gone Posted : 1 Dec, 2011 12:58 PM hahahaha, i live near the middle of nowhere:ROFL: who would attend? my few friends are in there 70-80's and married or widowed... Post Reply