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Admin	Hypothetical Question Posted : 22 Nov, 2011 07:20 PM Hypothetically, if you smoked marijuana and after talking to a girl for awhile you find that you really really like her, but she won't date you because you smoke marijuana... Would you stop smoking marijuana to give the relationship a chance, or would you tell the girl it was her loss and keep looking? Post Reply
View Profile History	Hypothetical Question Posted : 22 Nov, 2011 07:29 PM I'd get my high off Jesus; think maybe this girl has something with being responsible and mature; and let her see the real you! You and she may be surprised at how terrific you really are. God loves you just the way you are. He can handle all your cares and all your pain. He can be your escape. Their is no better high than that! Good Luck; with or with out the girl. :applause: Post Reply
View Profile History	Hypothetical Question Posted : 23 Nov, 2011 08:59 AM If someone I was talking to were engaged in illegal drug activity, I would try to help that person get into a rehab program. I would not consider him as potential partner at that time. I mean, he could go to jail at any time, or worse attempt to drag me into that lifestyle. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hypothetical Question Posted : 23 Nov, 2011 12:48 PM I'd have to look at what I iwas being asked to give up and whether I thought she was worth it. If she's asking me to give up something that's clearly illegal or bad for me (KFC for instance), then I'd consider that a reasonable request. If she wants me to quit going to church and all that "God stuff" then I'm afraid the answer is no because you only have to look at Solomon to see what happens when you put women before God! In your hypothetical situation, marijuana isn't good for you, is probably illegal and therefore there shouldn't even be the need to choose. If he'd rather lose the girl than the weed, then it's his loss, not hers! :dunce: Post Reply
View Profile History	Hypothetical Question Posted : 23 Nov, 2011 02:04 PM hypothetical answer,i would be willing to make great efforts in the reduction of my enjoyment,as i see this as a "eating meat in front of vegans" situation....so i definitly would never smoke up in front of this person,and go to great lengths to be brighteyed and bushytailed around this person also...as far as stop? how can one be,other than the LORD has made them to be? Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Hypothetical Question Posted : 23 Nov, 2011 04:37 PM If someone is smoking MJ and gives it up for a girl, he might go back to it if times get stressful or the girl isn't making him as happy as she sometimes does. I personally don't plan to consider someone as a potential spouse if that person's walk with God is that beginner, just like I probably wouldn't be considering someone a potential spouse if they had been sexually active with someone in the past 6 months to a year. Post Reply
RandallJewell View Profile History	Hypothetical Question Posted : 26 Nov, 2011 07:24 AM I find that sort of judemental mentality to be grossly unatractive so I wouldn't have those sort of feelings for someone who had that sort of train of thought. In my younger days though I was into the whole drug thing and used marijuana extensively, everyday. There was a girl I liked that didn't care for the marijuana thing and wouldn't date me if I didn't give it up. Gave it up but realized that the problem wasn't marijuana, but her thinking it was a problem, which led to many other problems if that makes sense. So it's usually pointless to pursue relations with people that are that conditional in their love. Post Reply