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How to win a men's heart?
Posted : 9 Nov, 2011 11:34 PM

Hi! to all members out here... If you have any ideas or suggestions regarding this topic, please feel free to say something...Your ideas are very much welcome! :glow:

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How to win a men's heart?
Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 02:49 AM

Having a passionate desire to do the Lord's will and seeking your man's opinions/guidance in it, will bless him with fulfillment in the area that God put him in.



And for a physical gesture, cook for him. I don't care how many men say that's no big deal(and maybe its not for them), but there's something very special about a woman caring for a man in that way. Probably good, nurturing reminders of what his mother did for him on a daily basis, hopefully!

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Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 05:43 AM

If anything, cooking is a very useful tool. It says I am not starving myself. It also says, I can take care of you too. It says I can actually cook, not just heat up things on the microwave. It says I care and will use fresh ingredients, not frozen blocks of stuff. It says try me for Thanksgiving dinner or a Christmas party and I will deliver.

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How to win a men's heart?
Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 08:18 AM

Should I bring anything? :)

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Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 08:51 AM

lol baking was the first thing that came to my mind too. Wasn't quite thinking at that deep a level though. It's just nice and hard not to appreciate it when some one brings you cookies, or treats, or lunch.

Also that happy medium between not being constantly paranoid or overcompensating and being a cold heartless person.

Laughing at our jokes and trying out your humor on us is good too.

What will probably get you the most milage, even in the beginning, would be to be happy and positive and showing your interest and attention. Don't suffocate him, but when you interact try to show those things. And bring up things you're passionate about and genuinely enjoy. I think that's the quickest way to get to know what a person is like. They don't even have to be things he likes, just show that you're passionate and most guys like women that are passionate about something.

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How to win a men's heart?
Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 08:53 AM

In the last sentence, you could also definitly put "respect" next to the word "like".

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How to win a men's heart?
Posted : 15 Nov, 2011 05:48 PM

You are definitely correct sir! To win a man's heart is his stomach...

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How to win a men's heart?
Posted : 16 Nov, 2011 03:21 PM

i appreciate what "ionlydatecheerleaders" is saying,however,You could be a deaf,dumb,blind,mute, provided Your appearance is according to his preferences You can win a guy with FOOD...

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Posted : 19 Nov, 2011 04:40 PM

Some of the ways that put a woman "in the winner's circle" in my heart are:



Passionately loving God with all her heart, easily and joyfully serving Him with compassion and concern for others in whatever ways He calls her to do so, representing Him to others, like I do, then:



Passionately loving ME with all her heart, second ONLY to God, putting everyone and everything else after God and me, as I would do with my passionate love for HER!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp::hearts::hearts::hearts:



Speaking my primary love language of Physical Touch to me every day in Barefoot Special Ways, showing me through speaking my primary love language how much she truly and always will love me and be commited and devoted to the love relationship the Lord has blessed our hearts with, as I would do for her, speaking and showing my love for her through HER primary love language, whatever IT is, every day!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp::hearts::hearts::hearts: And if we blissfully discover through reading and taking the Five Love Languages tests of Dr. Gary Chapman in his Five Love Languages book series that we are barefoot blessed to have the SAME primary love language of Physical Touch ... WOW!!! WOW!!! WOW!!! Barefoot WOW!!! :yay::applause::dancingp: What a BAREFOOT JOY AND DELIGHT that would be to share in our relationship as "Barefoot Lovers, Best Friends and Life in Christ Mates"!!!; as Christian husband and wife "helpmates" and "complements" to each other for the rest of our lives!!! :yay::dancingp::hearts:



Baking me my Barefoot Favorite Dessert: BROWNIES, is also high on the list of things a gal can do who's looking to "win" this Barefoot Guy To Love's heart; as well as, sharing some of my interests and loves, and loving to just share and communicate her heart, her life, her love of God and others, the things she feels and believes and is passionate about with me, enjoying having me share the in the same way with her about myself!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts: I LOVE COMMUNICATING AND SHARING WITH PEOPLE, ESPECIALLY, WITH A GAL WHO IS OR MIGHT BECOME "THAT BAREFOOT SPECIAL SOMEONE" OF MY HEART, DREAMS, HOPES AND PRAYERS AS MY WIFE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp::hearts::hearts::hearts:



Love,

Steve

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Posted : 24 Nov, 2011 06:11 AM

Let the man be himself.

Do not try to change him,leave this up to Yeshua.



Do not challenge the man for his position.



Encourage men when they are doing well,and gently and rebuke when they do drong.



Encourage the man unto love faith and good deeds.



Study the Word of YHWH together.

Pray together.



Look for common interests,and be doing good works together.



Look for ways to serving one another in Love.



When going out have the man 'PUT FORTH' his hard earned wages.



Have the man open the door for you,and wait at the door until he does.



Have the man help you with youd coat,chair and other htings that men of Yesuha should be doing.



Let the man lay down his life for you.



And last of all,LET the man know that he is 'YOUR MAN' ,just for Yeshua and You.



Shalom

Me

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Posted : 24 Nov, 2011 12:40 PM

Also, he'll really like it if you trust or value his opinion on something, especially what movies to maybe pick at the rental store.

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