Author	Thread: Just say hello
hesformeareyou View Profile History	Just say hello Posted : 23 Jan, 2009 01:40 PM If a man looks at my profile he must have read something he liked to take a closer look. Why then would he not write a short message to to say hi and maybe make a new friend? Post Reply
bluebeard96 View Profile History	Just say hello Posted : 24 Jan, 2009 03:53 PM Not necessarily. There was something in your "About Me" that made them interested, or they wanted to look at a more photos (additional/enlarged photos not available from the search result list). When searching, only photo, age, location, your "about me" and a few other field show up. You have to view the profile if you want to see other fields that may be important to you - smoking, relocation, marital status, etc. So, just because they viewed the profile doesn't necessarily mean they were interested - they may simply have wanted to get the info that doesn't come up in the search result list so that they could decide whether they're interested or not. Mike Post Reply
ephesians522 View Profile History	Just say hello Posted : 27 Jan, 2009 10:26 AM Imagine being at a "get together", a room filled with people. As you stand there you look around the room, you eyes would stop and focus on certain individuals because there was an item that caught your attention. You would not rush over and start talking to that person, unless what caught your eye develops your interest. If one is busy talking to someone, maybe on a cordial level, they may not feel impelled to excuse themselves and take a trip over to that individual and make an introduction. But if there is a "locking" of eyes, sometimes the one who is not engaged in conversation should take the initiative. Tap the person on the shoulder or wink at them. So that is how I relate a "dating site", a get together. Don't be put off, but feel free to take some initiative. Where else could you go there are thousands of individuals who are open to get aquainted with? What did you do at the last "New Years Eve" event you attended? Many blessings Post Reply
hesformeareyou View Profile History	Just say hello Posted : 27 Jan, 2009 11:59 AM Thank you for your reply, i appreciate it very much. Guys and girls think so differently about things that it was nice to hear your thoughts about this question.Hopefully it will help me to understand guys a little better. Thank you again Beth Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Just say hello Posted : 27 Feb, 2009 11:18 AM Well...I've tried saying "hello" a few times...doesn't seem to work...just get ignored most of the time, so I haven't been sending as many as I'd like...apparent rejection is an ugly thing for some guys, at least for me anyway. In person you can tell almost just by looking at someone if they're interested at all, but not here. It's more like sticking your neck out with an 80% chance to get it sliced off. It'd be AWESOME, if people would just say "sorry, you're not my type"....just something, anything. The silence is worse. Maybe it's just me... :peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Just say hello Posted : 8 Mar, 2009 01:58 PM :waving:Hey this is Tabby, well it's probably what you said in your profile, most christians don't have that type of view in life. From your profile it doesn't look like you have a genuine commited relationship with Lord. You should try a re-evaluation of your walk with the Lord to see if you are really putting Him first in your life, and seeking Him with all your heart. I'm sure you have recieved salvation,right? that is the first step to laying it all down for Jesus. I'm saying this out of compassion and a atempt to point you the right direction,( the narrow road) If you ever wanna chat, feel free to message me. Have a blessed day!:glow: Post Reply
amentojesus View Profile History	Just say hello Posted : 21 May, 2009 09:43 AM I don't like silence either..... it would be great if everyone would say if their not interested or already found that special someone, or are just on a trip and will get back with us later..... also when you write someone , please check your mail settings and theirs. Sometimes you may want an answer, but they can't get back with you , because the mail age setting is to low. Anyway... Post Reply