Author	Thread: Your requirements for a Godly women you would date?
kingskidaz View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 01:50 AM Is Age and body type a absolute must for you? Are you willing to get to know the women even if she is older, or larger sized? Honestly as Christians don't you look at the inside of the person also. Is is that repulsive to you to consider dating someone that is not perfect body wise. I know all guys are not like this but it seems so many here do not even consider someone larger or older then themselves. Most of the guys want a much younger women and thin. You never know what your missing if you donlt consider getting to be friends with a women and seeing what is on the inside. All of us get older, have problems, noone is sinless or should make judgements before actually getting to know someone first... Your missing out on so much. Consider that God may send the right women for you in a different package than your envision. Pray about it... At the least be nice enough to respond to a flirt or email even if she is not Ms perfect. Post Reply
View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 07:21 AM You know, unless you have gotten messages from guys stating these specific things, you are just throwing out wild guesses why they might not be into you. Stay positive about this experience and realize whatever guys didn't find you interesting, were obviously not the right match anyways. Post Reply
View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 08:24 AM Most of us aren't looking for perfect 10 supermodels. However if we're going to go out of our way to take a chance, we won't do it for no reason. Most of what we look for has to do with how you take care of yourself and treat yourself rather than body type. If a girl doesn't think she's worth it, why should I? You can take it to the other extreme though. We can also recognize when a girl is full of herself and high maintainence. I'd take the easy going friendly girl next door over the super model anyday. Just relax and enjoy yourself. Post Reply
View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 08:26 AM Even behind a pretty face can be a very empty brain and/or heart, but the face is what we see first. Post Reply
kingskidaz View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 08:28 AM Thank you for the kind reply.. honestly I have been responded to in a very negitive way at least once here by a member who told me to be honest and realistic..... the guys are looking for bueatiful asian younger girls..... why was I here that they had such bueatiful younger women after them why would they pick me.... or something like that...I have been honest in my profile. I am not a scammer like so many who reply online. and there are so many good qualities in people other than size and age. Post Reply
View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 09:03 AM :laugh: don't worry, we have those asian younger women coming in the forum with the same problem. Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 1 Oct, 2011 11:16 PM :ROFL: Okay, I HAVE to share this. I had a similar experience on a different Christian dating site to what you had kingskid. This guy emailed me and was being really shallow and inappropriate. So I emailed him back and can't remember exactly what I said, but basically said, "Thanks, but no thanks." Anyway, he writes back and tells me that I missed out and that he has dated women way hotter than me and he just wanted to give me a "chance" because of something (can't remember what). He said that I'm obviously empty headed and that I'm nothing and obviously have nothing and have no goals and dreams and am going no where in life and he would never date me because I'm not good enough for him. I sat there and couldn't decide whether to send a snarky reply or just move on, but it was hilarious to me that some men (and probably some women too) are really that pathetic that they think it's necessary to say stuff like that. And let me tell ya, he was no prize in the looks department. It isn't all about looks, but he thought he was hot stuff, and he wasn't. Sometimes you just run into kooks like that. It's unfortunate, but true. The reality of it is, looks do play a part in relationships, but there's no "one type" that every man is looking for. Everyone likes different body types and different features. But God created us all to be who we are. And what it really boils down to is it's our responsibility to take care of the bodies God gave us. That in no way means we have to "be" any certain thing. In fact, it means the opposite! God made us all different because it would be boring any other way. You can be 100 pounds or you can be 500 pounds, and not every guy is going to find you physically attractive, but there is always someone who will because all men have different things they find attractive. The important thing is to have confidence in who you are and let the real you shine through. It can be hard to have confidence sometimes, but I learned that if you fake being confident, eventually you'll believe you're confident, and then you really do become confident. And confidence will make a world of difference. Post Reply
View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 3 Oct, 2011 12:05 PM My tastes in what a woman looks like vary - whether she is slender or had a few extra pounds. Physical attraction is important, but what I look to is - how does she stack up in terms of character with regard to the words instruction on a Godly wife found in Ephesians Chapter 5 > which is how well she honors and respects me. Post Reply
sillygirlz View Profile History	Your requirements for a Godly women you would date? Posted : 26 Nov, 2011 11:18 PM I have run into many men that only want slender, more attractive women. It can be frustrating but the way I see it is if the guy isn't willing to look at our true inner beauty and realize that us beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes, then they obviously aren't worth it. We know our true worth....do they? Post Reply