Author	Thread: This Is Really Bothering Me....
Admin	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 09:04 PM Ok "Christian Men Of God" "I Have Some Questions For You" "Why Is It "Born-Again Christian Guys" are too picky I Thought Us Women Are Bad" "You don't want to date us because we live to far meaning "In The Same State Just By A Few Hours" "You Anyalize Us Way To Intesenly When It Not Necessary" "Men now a days tend to not be raised to be "Senstive To Us "Christian Women" "We Have To Constantly Prove Ourselves To You" "What I Am Trying To Say To You Is This" "Men Don't Think How Can I Be Of Help To The Oppostite Sex" "Men just don't think that way" (I know it might seem I am bad mouth you men but "The So Called "Born-Again Christians Guys I Run Into" "The Anyalize Why Did We Say This In A Post" "And Men Just Say "The Stupid Thing And The First Thing That Comes To Their Mind And Their Mouth" "Why Is That" "I know men have their strong views but they take it way to far...I think that I will die when I meet someone on here or locally that is like "My Brother Rob who "Is The Most Senstive "Christian Guy I Have Ever Met" " I Wish "Born-Again Guys" Could Be More Senstive And Minister To The Young Ladies Heart" "Be There For Her And Stop Make Excuses Why He Can't..."Even If A Christian Guy Is Busy He Can Send A E-mail That Is Postive With Encouraging Words To Say"....:prayingf: ~Blessings~:yay: ~Lynda~:peace::angel: ~ Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 09:30 PM Ok "Christian Men Of God" "I Have Some Questions For You" "Why Is It "Born-Again Christian Guys" are too picky I Thought Us Women Are Bad" "You don't want to date us because we live to far meaning "In The Same State Just By A Few Hours" "You Anyalize Us Way To Intesenly When It Not Necessary" "Men now a days tend to not be raised to be "Senstive To Us "Christian Women" "We Have To Constantly Prove Ourselves To You" "What I Am Trying To Say To You Is This" "Men Don't Think How Can I Be Of Help To The Oppostite Sex" "Men just don't think that way" (I know it might seem I am bad mouth you men but "The So Called "Born-Again Christians Guys I Run Into" "The Anyalize Why Did We Say This In A Post" "And Men Just Say "The Stupid Thing And The First Thing That Comes To Their Mind And Their Mouth" "Why Is That" "I know men have their strong views but they take it way to far...I think that I will die when I meet someone on here or locally that is like "My Brother Rob who "Is The Most Senstive "Christian Guy I Have Ever Met" " I Wish "Born-Again Guys" Could Be More Senstive And Minister To The Young Ladies Heart" "Be There For Her And Stop Make Excuses Why He Can't..."Even If A Christian Guy Is Busy He Can Send A E-mail That Is Postive With Encouraging Words To Say".... ~Blessings~:applause: ~Lynda~:peace::angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 09:31 PM That was a lot of questions with a lot of quotation marks and no periods. Maybe you should start again from the beginning.... Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 09:35 PM It is all in there...Just look beyond The " " and whatever eles Confused you...you can still read it....Basically why do "Born-Again Christian Guys Do And Say The Stupid Things That TheY Do"..."They don't hit on The Right To Say To A Women For Guys Are Very Offensive" "They are Too Picky And Have To Much To Say" "Another Words Why Can't Guys Be Ministering And Helpful And Kind To Women Instead Of Trying To Read Us So Intenstely And Say The Wrong Things To Us.... ~Blessings~:applause: ~Lynda~:peace::angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 09:52 PM There are many reasons, none of which are anything more than excuses. Maybe it has something to do with the men you choose. Most of the Christian men I know are kind, loving, gentle Christian men. That does not mean that they are weak and will let you get by with trying to walk all over them, and no, I am not accusing you of that. The truth is there is no acceptable excuse for hurting someone else, if you are a Christian. But it all basically comes down to this; if you are not happy with the men you are choosing, maybe you need to change those choices. Blessings, Leon Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 10:06 PM My sister, You can not judge all Christian men by the actions of a few. Forgive those who have wronged you and do not allow a root of bitterness to grow. Be all that you can be in Christ and then the good ones will come. Blessings, Lydia Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 10:50 PM Leon, Thanks for Taking "The Time To Reply" "But it really has nothing to do with Me"...I mean Leon..."I have looked at serveal of "Profiles On Here" "And not to judge but it seem to me The Majority Of The "Christian Guys Here Are Rude And Insenstive And Have No Follow Through" Ok For Example that show on "Their Status" "That they want A Marriage Partner" but when it comes to chatting and all they make excuses and don't pick up on "The Good" "Only The Negative in Their Eyes" "Christian Guys on here in My Opionion Need To Decide If They Want A Pal Or A Serious Relationship They Need To Decide That Before They Get On Here And Not "Think They Are Here For Something Eles" For They Are Only Kidding Themselves "Leon" ~Blessings~:applause: ~Lynda~:peace::angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 21 Jan, 2009 11:02 PM Jesus Freak, Thanks For Taking The Time To Reply...I have forgiven these guys that hurt and our insenstive but it seem when I get over it and is around "The Corner Again" "Most Guys all kind Non-Christian And A Born-Again Christian Guy They Don't Want A Serious Relationship Anything That Causes Effort They Don't Want...They Just Want " A Christian Woman Whenever They Feel It Is Necessary And Just Pal Around With Nothing Serious But They Give "Mixed Signals" "When They State On Their Status They Want More" "For Example They Say They Want "Marriage Partner But There Is No Follow Through Of "Chatting And Being Poliete And Talking About Uplifting Things That Glorifies The Lord" ("Not Saying They Aren't Interested In These Things In Their Own Life") "But When I Bring It Up Things That Matter To Me Like "Praise&Worship Music Like "Chris Tomlin" And What Book I Been Studying Like "God Word Made Plain" They Don't Want To Invest In A Postive Conversation"... ~This is what bothering me to be a little more clearer~:excited: ~Blessings~:applause: ~Lynda~:peace::angel: Post Reply
ephesians522 View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 12:32 AM Sister Lynda, The problem with men in general is that we don't share the same emotional capacity or sensitivity that women do. It's just the way we are raised. Between the sexes the minds work differently. Women want best friends, they want someone they can talk to for hours about things that effect them emotionally. I know that personally because I was involved with a woman for seven months who trained me to be a listener 12 hours out of each day. It was only by the grace of God that she reconsidered reconciling with her ex and I was freed of what I consider as torture without having to go through the process of ending our short relationship. Guys don't talk unless they have something to say or they a problem with insecurity. If presented with an issue, unless it is life threatening, it may take up to four hours for a guy to process it....PROCESS IT, that's not even coming up with a response or a resolution. I know that is what irritates women the most but that is what woman have to understand. The hardest question for a woman to ask a guy is, "Do you think I'm right for you?" I don't think there is a guy out there that can even give an immediate answer to that question after sharing a short period of time with a woman, let alone after just exchanging words and being on a couple of dates. Always expect the wrong answer to come out of a guy's mouth if you want an answer right away. If he doesn't respond that means he cares enough to even think about the question you asked him. If you want to get his honest opinion then you have to give him at least four hours to come up with an answer. Plus what women find important, guys see trivial. Unless it deals with finances or it needs oil, guys would rather skirt the issue. I'll let you in on a little secret, most Christian guys when they listen to a Christian radio station don't listen to the music...I didn't say all, just most. Guys listen for guidance, for wisdom, and to reaffirmed in the word of the Lord. So don't be put off if a guy doesn't seem interested in the things you present to him. That's just the way most of us guys are. Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 10:28 AM Well don't let a few bad examples represent our entire gender to you. Leon is right, there is a ton of good christian men out there that are very uplifting and loving. I've had bad relationships with girls that said they were christian and then assumed all of them were like her, and boy was i wrong. a reason im kinda picky with the people i meet is because i want to be able to bond with that person outside of the fact that were both christian. I understand that God comes first and foremost and that he should be what binds us together. but if the only thing i have in common with a girl is that we both love God, things are going to be difficult, if she hates everything i love, its just not going to work out for me and im going to move on. you said all of the guys seem to say the wrong thing to you. if your looking for a guy whos only going to say the right thing to you, you may want to lower your standards, because im quite sure he doesnt exist, i know thats a little extreme, but its true. Post Reply
View Profile History	This Is Really Bothering Me.... Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 05:00 PM You guys are all wrong!!!!! Thanks for taking The Time To share "Your Thoughts" "However,that is not "The Answers I am Looking For" " I know that all ready everything you stated" "I am talking about that when you are first meeting Us- "Women" "You guys some how say "The Most Inapporiate Things" "You ask why we do what we do when you guys are "So Off Base" "You guys say some of you want a "Christian Marriage Partner but all you guys want is "A E-mail Buddy" "You guys are Not Honest In What You Are Looking For" You guys interpert things The Wrong Way Too" If I sent out a E-mail that is "Persuing A Guy Strongly" "I was talking to this guy on here and I just wanted to make sure that he got My Message" I skiped three whole days to see when he would communicate with me next and nothing.."Doesn't Matter If Your Busy" "If a guy can be snooty and ask a very rude question to you then he can be postive and encouraging too...."I want The Passion And Zeal.."Look What Great Things The Lord Is Doing In My Life" "That is great The Lord is doing Great Things In Your Life Please Share" "If I Am Busy I Will Get Back To You But Please Share A Little Bit Of That Book "God Word Made Plain" "So when I am free I will respond back to "Your E-mail" ~Anyway Guys...I didn't say all guys I said Some The Ones I Am Running Into"...I was expecting more of a maturity when you are *In Your 30s* "I Am Done With This Post Unless You Guys Can Say Something Different" I Know You Guys Are Non Verbal And Don't Like To Communicate And Share Deeply...I Am 33 Years Old So I Know How Disappointing It Can Be...LOL:P::P:P ~Blessings~:zzzz: ~Lynda~:ROFL::peace::angel: Post Reply

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