Author	Thread: Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women?
wheeshmarie View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 06:42 AM I was asked last night to provide a nude picture of myself to a guy I've never met. I'm never going to do that for anyone, but I was just wondering are all men like that, or why do guys like that? Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 07:20 AM I think you already know that not every guy is going to ask for that. Block the ones that ask inappropriate things, try to screen out them better, and find the right one out there. Realize everyone is on these sites for different purposes. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 12:21 PM Ditto. Sorry that happened. At least he made it easy for you to discern he's dispicable and a scumbag who doesn't deserve a second thought. Hope you find the guy you want soon. Post Reply
Statie View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 03:57 PM ALL men are NOT like that....only the ones that ask you are. Why do men like that? Really????? Why does anyone enjoy looking at a thing of beauty?....Because it pleases us to do so, lol.:ROFL: Post Reply
CuddleBunny View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 05:37 PM The only person I would do that for is my husband. A man or woman has no right to lust over something that isn't theirs. To be a broken record: Not ALL guys are like this. Sorry that it seems that way to you, but you're in the right place to find a man of God who respects you more than that guy you experienced. If you found such a guy on this website, then I am deeply saddened because I came across a man who implied I should send him a nude so he can get a better look at my body shape, but these type of men are in the minority on here since this wasn't a constant experience unlike other dating sites. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 3 Oct, 2011 12:10 PM When I entered my post on that subject I had not seen yours, but I think that does a good job of explaining it. Another would be that whether he takes you out of marries you - he will be taking all of you and not just your face. Attraction has some importance. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 3 Oct, 2011 12:27 PM Oops. Sorry. I didn't notice he asked you for a nude picture. I assumed he was only asking for one that showed all of you - in your clothers. Of course no guy should be asking questions like that and you should report that to Admin. May be they would do something Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 4 Oct, 2011 11:25 AM I read your post MiracleMan and I don't agree. There are two pictures on my profile. I've been asked for more pictures. It's quite irritating!! Here's how I see it. Men are visual creatures. Don't understand entirely but that's okay. God created men this way so I'm rolling with it. And physical attraction does need to be present for both parties involved. However, if a man views a profile picture and finds the lady attractive enough to send her message, then shouldn't he trust his God given instincts? Do men even ask God about the women they are talking to? Or is it just a roll of the dice? And if you are not sure if the pictures are current, why don't you ASK HER? Ask her about herself. Get to know her. The truth will reveal itself soon enough. I go to God with every man who messages me. I ask the Lord to give me discernment and guide me on whether I should continue getting to know him or to say, "see yah!" (LOL Last guy I spoke to was married! Unbelievable!) A true man of God will always seek God on who his future wife will be and he will be attracted to her no matter what because God made her specifically for him, knowing the desires of his heart. Post Reply
bhoov3 View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 5 Oct, 2011 08:21 AM The lady above me got it right...men we are visual creatures and thats what makes us 1ST attracted...and women you cannot sit here and say that you guys are not about looks either because there have been many a times where I messaged someone that I thought was attractive on here and got nothing back...and I think that is lame women you should man up and hit the little i dont think we would make a good match button and not ignore someone cause your not attracted to them...if someone messages me or winks and I am not attracted then I have enuff honesty to tell the we wouldnt match if it hurts there feelings oh well your on a dating website with pics lets be real about it and not try to act like god is gonna come down from above and say hey do not message this guy or hey message this guy if that was the case do u not think he would have everyone accept him as savior??? No he gives us choice and its up to us to evaluate and decide on the right person and if we go by godly principles we should make the right choice...Im just sick of girls acting like it is not all about looks they care initally as much as we do....sorry for the grammer carpal tunnel is setting in lol..just my 2 cents!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Why do guys seem to want unnecessary pictures of women? Posted : 12 Oct, 2011 05:08 PM Morality aside, what he wants is absurd. He can easily get erotic photos of career supermodels on line. A guy asking a girl to compete in that area would be like a girl asking a guy to beat up George Foreman to prove his manliness before going out with him. If I did that for a girl I would get my silly little nose splattered and my silly little heart broken. Not all guys are like that. What I would want is a girl who can be my friend, who can talk, and share interests, and do things with me. I would want to be loyal to her and for her to be loyal to me. If she finally lets me see her without her clothes I want it to be because she announces that I have earned the privilege-by saying "I do." I presume there are enough guys out there that agree with me, that would want to respect a girlfriend and cherish her and assuredly not treat her like that. Post Reply