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Posted : 7 Sep, 2011 11:52 AM

what does it mean when a guy you are going out with refuses to pick your calls for two days and does not return your missed calls?

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Posted : 7 Sep, 2011 02:02 PM

I think it would depend on a couple factors.

1) What does "going out with" mean? You are in constant communciation? You are actively seeing each other several times a week? You are exclusive?

2) A couple days could mean he's out of town on business, he's been ill, or overwhelmed with stuff, or in a funk.

3) If you are only just starting a relationship, you need to give him some elbow room.



If none of the above... sorry honey, he's just not that into you! I'm afraid this happens more often than not. Just too many candies in the candy store to figure out that YOU are special!

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Posted : 7 Sep, 2011 06:10 PM

Remember Abraham's commission to his servant:



"The LORD, the God of heaven, who brought me out of my father's household and my native land and who spoke to me and promised me on oath, saying, 'To your offspring I will give this land'--he will send his angel before you so that you can get a wife for my son from there." (GN 24:1-4)



Remember to get out of God's way & let Him do his work.

Also remember your part:



"And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much AND will inherit eternal life."

(emphasis added- Matthew:19:29)



Mark adds, "with persecutions." These are not promised ONLY as rewards; but during trials and persecutions we should find reward and peace.

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Posted : 8 Sep, 2011 12:33 PM

i really really agree with TrustnBelieve on these parts, "overwhelmed with stuff, or in a funk."

overwhelmed?the first and last weeks of the month,if You call me on monday,hopefully i can get to Your call by thursday.

middle two weeks,you probably hear from me within the hour.



IN A FUNK? ugh! it happens...i do hope ladies understand that YOu are OUr escape,sanctuary,crib,craddle,enchanted forest,panic room,safe place,(whatever You wanna call it )

it is our greatest hope that when with YOu,there is only positive wellness!!!

hahaa,which is probably why we procrastinate marriage,cuz in marriage, some negitives get in the mix....

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