Author	Thread: What are you really looking for a woman?
liz_kulet View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 6 Sep, 2011 06:53 AM What are you really looking for a woman? I know that distance really matters for some guys...but what if you kinda like a woman and she's living far, would you still make way to connect with the woman or would rather not? Thank you and God bless you all...:angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 6 Sep, 2011 11:06 AM Women may be happy chatting at length in emails or on the phone - I don't know if other guys feel the same, but I want to talk face-to-face and if that's going to be difficult because of the distance then I'm not likely to bother. Ditto for those that aren't interested in meeting up but still want to keep the chat going. Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 7 Sep, 2011 05:59 AM Hi Liz, i cannot speak for all the fella's at this site,for the most i have chatted with,we have ministrie's, we do not have the luxury of time,energy or finances available for travel,making a the very thought of a long distance relationship seem overwhelming... Post Reply
liz_kulet View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 8 Sep, 2011 03:55 AM thank you for your honesty... Good bless you:angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 9 Sep, 2011 05:09 PM I'd choose being single over a computer screen relationship anyday. Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 11 Sep, 2011 07:32 AM In these times with the economy way down, its difficult for me to expect someone to relocate if they are blessed with a stable job, unless they say they are willing to relocate. I think that only if both sides are open to relocating that a long distance relationship can be properly "negotiated." I'm starting to sound like a broken record on these forums, but I'm consistently pointing toward God, that he can open doors. He directed nations at his will to bring judgement, did he not? "I know what I�m doing. I have it all planned out�plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for. When you call on me, when you come and pray to me, I�ll listen. When you come looking for me, you�ll find me. Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else, I�ll make sure you won�t be disappointed. God�s Decree." Jeremiah 29:11-13 (The Message) Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 26 Sep, 2011 02:31 PM Distance and openness to relocating is a preference to both guys and girls, everyone is different because everyone is in a different situation. And situations change too. A guy/girl who is open to relocating at one point in his life may not be later because of changed circumstances be it family, job, education etc. or the reverse may be true. And distance may mean one thing to one person and a different thing to another. Like for me I live in Northern IN. What I may think as to far away may be ok with someone else, or what may seem fine for me may seem too far for someone else. Personally I feel like if you are talking to someone who you might see your self becoming interested in there is no harm in bringing up distance/relocation and where they stand personally just from a preference standpoint. I know it can be an awkward thing to bring up because what can be implied or sensed as implied is that you are asking about it specifically between you and that person. I think the key is to stay general as you are just getting to know someone or you can scare someone off by giving the impression that you're already planning your potential life together. Another thing to keep in mind is as you get to know someone you may and they may find that there is enough mutual interest there to at least consider bending a few personal preferences. For instance for me I'd like to stay within the bordering states (IL, MI, OH, KY and of course IN) and within that a reasonable one way travel time. That's not to say that if I came across someone who I found I really clicked with I might entertain the idea of making an exception to my preference. One of my pastors is originally from KY but married a girl from California and ended up living up here in Northern IN. I feel like true love can find a way and two people who are willing to put the effort can find a way to make it work. Post Reply
liz_kulet View Profile History	What are you really looking for a woman? Posted : 10 Nov, 2011 06:38 AM "true love can find a way and two people who are willing to put the effort can find a way to make it work" I guess, this sentence really explains how two people could make long distanced relationship works. God bless all! Post Reply