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Admin	If You Like Her... Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 10:31 PM Okay gentleman. Is it safe to say if you like a woman/lady/girl/gal then you'll ask her out? I would like to stop building up every little action or thing a guy does and spin it to how I think he feel towards me. I think the only way to do this is to realize that if he feels that way towards me, then he would say something, right? And another question. How do you move from friends to something more? Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 4 Sep, 2011 12:05 PM No I don`t think it`s safe to assume that if a guy likes a girl he will ask her out. There`s always that fear of rejection or embarrassement/shyness about steping forward and speaking to her. How to move from friends to soemthing else more serious?... It would have to be a mutual progression between the couple to move to dating/ courting/ engagement. Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 4 Sep, 2011 04:41 PM why would You wanna mess up a perfectly good friendship? Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 4 Sep, 2011 04:44 PM Okay gentleman. Is it safe to say if you like a woman/lady/girl/gal then you'll ask her out? NO! I think the only way to do this is to realize that if he feels that way towards me, then he would say something, right?NO! Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 4 Sep, 2011 06:02 PM Ms. Kelly, If you are Interested in �Some Guy� (isn�t that a Chinese Dish?) and he has so Little Confidence in Himself that He does not �ask you out��then this Lack of Confidence will Permeate throughout his �World�. This will Affect (pretty much) Everything he Does or Touches. Are you sure you want to have a Relationship with him? I mean he will always Doubt Himself and his Lack of Confidence will be a �Downer� (unless you Like those types). So�just be yourself (not whom you think Guys want you to be) and don�t try to �Read between the Lines �. If you like being with a Guy and you�d like more than �Just Friends��then you could drop �Hints� � Like� �You know�I REALLY Enjoy the Time we�ve Spent Together� she said while Gazing into Fabio�s Dreamy Aqua-Blue Eyes and Twisting the hair behind her Right Ear. :hearts: Or �Fabio�I just cannot Believe How much Fun it is being with you!� cooed Erica as she �Tossed� her Long Red Hair Back behind her head. :rolleyes: Or something Like that. :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 4 Sep, 2011 09:25 PM Hahaha...thanks for the advice. Especially Archimedes. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 5 Sep, 2011 01:14 PM If a guy worth dating likes you, he will ask you out. If he doesn't ask you out, he is either not interested or is too much of a sissy to be worth dating at the moment. He needs to spend time developing his relationship with Christ and learning to be more confident before he should be thinking about dating. As for how to move beyond friends, you're friends already for a reason. If you were a good match romantically, you wouldn't still be just friends. Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 5 Sep, 2011 01:25 PM Maybe a better question would be: If he wasn't interested would he not ask you out? Not necessarily. Is it somebody you know well or more like a 1 time social thing? Because the 1 time social thing is a little more trickier to navigate. I say if it's some one you're familiar with and you're interested even though he hasn't brought it up either ask him, or move on. Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 5 Sep, 2011 01:25 PM Sure, toss the opportunity aside because your pride won't let you be the one to ask. This isn't a go at the OP, just the general attitude that men should be the ones making the effort - that's not mandated by the Bible and I'm not interested in women who think like that. I know this opinion will ruffle a few feathers but before opposing verses come flooding in, remember the parable of the ten virgins, and Ruth and Boaz... Post Reply
View Profile History	If You Like Her... Posted : 5 Sep, 2011 01:54 PM I think it's totally okay for women to prefer a guy who makes the first move, but if you never meet or get to know him better you have yourself to blame as much as him if not more so. Being a guy, it's sometimes hard to tell if a girl is or isn't interested. If she isn't showing interest is it because she's shy or she thinks she's not my type, not interested in a relationship or is just stuck up, etc.? Or even if she is shy is she just naturally quiet or does she have no self-worth and confidence? We're more likely to go up if she looks and acts interested and interesting. Anyway, just some things that run through a guys head before he does or doesn't decide to go up and talk to you. It's complicated sometimes :glow: So confidence and persistence is the best policy for either side. Post Reply