Author	Thread: Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites?
joiseygoil4him View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 10:34 AM I need your input Christian men! I am having an issue explaining to a Christian man, that when in a serious committed monogomous relationship working towards a permanent life together, he still wants to have active profiles on several dating sites, video messenger chats, talk in private chats with single women (supposed friends) on yahoo and facebook, personal emails with women. etc.It is wrong to me. I personally believe that a Christian man should be committed to the person he loves not be a player. Having outside relationships with the opposite sex creates an unhealthy realtionship with the one you are with. His attitude is i want control and am being insecure. I do not have single men friends or do any of this while I am in a relationship. Any conversations I have are in a christian open chat room for fellowship or posts on walls at Fb so he can read them. Its all out in the open. All your responses will help. Thanks!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 11:49 AM Perhaps he's has bad experiences in the past and isn't yet secure enough in the relationship to not need a plan B. Of course, if they're just friends then there's no problem and no reason they couldn't be your friends too. You don't necessarily have to like everything that goes on in a relationship for it to work out - he may be asking others for advice on his "controlling" girlfriend who wants him to stop talking to friends he's made on the internet... Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 21 Aug, 2011 02:46 PM Yep. Probably bad experiences he may have to talk out with you before he can trust you enough to be more committed. It may take some time. Ask and listen. Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 22 Aug, 2011 07:30 AM Girlfriend! PlLeeeeeese! This guy is still 15 years old! He wants his Cake and he wants to be able to Eat it Too! Why would any Man want to continue "searching" when he "supposedly" has already Found IT! It may be Painful but I feel you need to "Walk Away"! I don't see this guy "growing up" anytime soon or "seeing the Light". Sorry. Post Reply
Lorraine121 View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 22 Aug, 2011 11:58 AM I certainly wouldn't be happy for my new found 'boyfriend' to continue looking at dating sites. Come on....how much advice does he need at this stage in your relationship! Surely his time would be better spent courting you and getting to know you better. There's no point starting a relationship with a "Plan B" How would he like it if the roles were reversed? Perhaps he should view the situation from your perspective. Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 24 Aug, 2011 01:21 PM Though it is perfectly fine to have friendships with the opposite sex, to be chatting on dating sites while in a committed relationship is a precursor to a cheater in my opinion. Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 24 Aug, 2011 02:29 PM He doesn't think he is in a serious relationship if he is doing that!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 01:07 AM Hi Joisey, i had this problem with a girlfriend once,Her stance was very true and simple," We ain't married yet!" so basically until one is married,they are single... Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 06:36 PM The piont of being in a relationship is to truly deovet yourself to that proson, if they dont fully trust that proson than they have no bussiness being in a relationship with them. that simple!!!!!! And that was a vary lame, he was hurt so that gives him the right to go do that to someone else?????? What kind of christian man would do that?????!!!!!?????? Post Reply
View Profile History	Men in a serious relationship still on dating sites, still talking to single women (friends) they met on dating sites? Posted : 14 Oct, 2011 06:38 PM No man should have that right if hes in a relationship. That man is just out for him self and dos not care who he hurts. Post Reply