Author	Thread: 20 questions... nah how about five
Admin	20 questions... nah how about five Posted : 7 Aug, 2011 06:24 AM If you had just five questions to ask a woman to see if you truly wanted to pursue her what would it be? Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	20 questions... nah how about five Posted : 7 Aug, 2011 01:44 PM Describe your relationship to Christ? How do view marriage? How do you view children? What are your goals in life? Whats the worst thing about you? Of cource I would have to weave them in a conversation so as not to frighten the ppor lass with a barrage of questions. Post Reply
View Profile History	20 questions... nah how about five Posted : 8 Aug, 2011 05:35 PM First Question would be: "If there were runners on base (one on First Base and the other on Second Base) and less than Two Outs and the Batter Popped up in the Infield ...what would happen next? Post Reply
View Profile History	20 questions... nah how about five Posted : 9 Aug, 2011 01:45 PM Hm, this would be difficult. I guess I'd have questions that are complex yet simple, very open-ended to allow her to say whatever she wants (and I can read her based off her answers' length, content, tone, thoughtfulness, etc. I'd go for expanded basics, hoping she would give me some good length and clarity in her answers so I can understand her in the terms below the basic questions: 1. Who are you? No, who are you really? This is an identity question, seeking to see how she identifies herself and what about her she thinks is most important in what makes her who she is. Is it Christ? Levels of her maturity can be shown here too based on how she views herself. 2. What are you doing? I mean, in the bigger picture. This is a question of action, where you can see who she is by what she does and how she interacts with the world. Does she reach out to people for a cause greater than herself? Does she have a "purpose" for where she is right now? 3. Where are you going? Again, in the bigger picture. This is a question of future intent, where she imagines herself being in the near/semi-distant future. Since I'm college-aged, it would be a question of where she thinks her life will take her in terms of what she would like to be doing. Aspirations, dreams, hopes, etc all can show up here, if she gives an inclusive answer. Is she trusting God with her future? Does she have a direction she's being led in by Christ? Does she assume she'll be married or is that not as important to her as fulfilling her divine calling? 4. What is important to you, and what isn't important to you? This is a question of priorities, things that automatically have a place in her attention. Is it shallow, or is it deep? Is it Christ and others? Family, friends? Justice, kindness, etc? Are the things she thinks are important the same things that God thinks are important, and likewise for the unimportant? 5. What are the greatest and worst things about you? This is sort of another identity question, since identity is extremely crucial in determining on what level you want to interact with someone. This question can be very telling, if she gives a deep answer. Does she recognize and value her own strengths, and does she acknowledge and work to improve her weaknesses? People are wonderful at detecting both strengths and weaknesses in others, especially in relationships... therefore it is important that everyone is on the same page and living in reality instead of missing out on who they are. After all, if you do not know yourself how can you ever truly know anyone else and appreciate their strengths and weaknesses? There are many, many more questions that would be useful to ask, but I think if one is limited to just five that those are the ones I would ask. Post Reply
View Profile History	20 questions... nah how about five Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 10:08 PM (1) What is Your plan? (2) How is Your timeline? (3) what will become of You when You die? (4) Who is Jesus Christ to You? (5) why me? Post Reply