Author	Thread: What don't you like about some girls on this site...
Admin	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 26 Jul, 2011 08:19 PM Guys I'm sure you ran across some girl profiles that made you upset and dissapointed. Well let's here them... And feel free to keep posting adding on... What don't you like about some girls on this site? Post Reply
View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 26 Jul, 2011 08:36 PM I don't like when some girls have a whole list of expectations on their profile. I mean really...like their looking for thee perfect guy. A huge list of demands. I know you seen it on their profiles. When a girls profile picture is completely different from their actual now present picture. Please dont' put up pictures from like a year or two ago if you don't look the same. Don't throw us off. That's dishonest and misleading. When a girl says one thing in their profile then their a whole diffeernt person. They say their sweet, kind, love God, blah blah, and when you actual talk to them it's a whole other story. The race card... don't say you only like/date certain types of races that's messed up. I reading your profile. I'm still reading your profile. I'm reading and reading, but you don't even mention God what's up with that? WOW! Or how about the girls who say the LOVE the Lord but you find out they don't even go to Church, don't read their bible, and don't even attempt to pray. They curse, quick tempered, sassy bad attitude...Not judging but come on really... don't pretend. If you want a handsome attractive guy then also make an effort yourself no offense. You can't expect to have a guy with perfect abs when your on the couch eating potato chips. Really come on. If your first thought is what does he do there's a problem. It's more to a guy then his occupation, girl$. If you don't like a guy don't lead them on. Fake pictures... really? Come on! Two or more pictures would be nice. A full body picture would be nice as well. On the flip side you would want the same. Christianity is not rude, stuck up, or all about you. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 27 Jul, 2011 04:41 AM hmmm...yeah I'll chime in narrow age gaps really!! that stuff is for the movies you'll be blessed to find a Christian man that walks the walk without trying to tell God...oh but hes got between this age and that For a gender who wants to be loved for your heart you sure don't take time to investigate a mans heart I could check off every preferance and standrd on some womens profile and still not a responce....i sence some misrepresentation on what you want. Really if you say you love kids, and wont talk to a man that has kids....than perhaps you only love them so much. Single moms your kids arent your life, i realize they are a package deal but please dont use them to fill up your void Divorced Women some of you want better than you got last time (dont we all) but havent taken inventory on what makes them inperfect (arent we all?) taking problems and emotional business from one relationship to another Even though there are divorced ppl on dont treat us as if we have a scaret letter once again lack of investigation wont get you the knowledge that some on here are justifiably divorced. This whole fair tale starting and ending together seems like women are more worried about starting life kids careers etc than serving God in their marriage With that said mairrage is NOT ABOUT YOU ITS ABOUT SERVING THE OTHER PUTTING YOUSELF UNDER ANOTHER MUCH LIKE OUR CHRISTIAN WALK. :^) (gets off his soap box) I do love you ladies and I do wish you all the love and Gods best. :^) Post Reply
View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 27 Jul, 2011 06:54 AM What I don't like is that they are too darn attractive, look at angels profile, ladyofthelake, bioangel, WOW. Christ is in there all right. bless, michael Post Reply
krodecap View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 27 Jul, 2011 03:11 PM I don't want to sound snobby...but many of the girls that contact me CANNOT type or spell. I don't know if they're on their phones or what...but I'm a guy that appreciates education and intelligence, and I try to show that in every correspondence; I just ask for the same respect. Also, along with a few other guys on here, I find that a lot of the girls (especially ones my age) seem really marriage-happy. Yeah, I want to find God's perfect match for me, too...and I dream of finding a wife to settle down with; but I'm not trying to rush it and I certainly cannot justify discussing marriage plans with someone I met a week ago and have only communicated with on the net. I like what you said Rabbit, some of the women on here aren't investigating a man's heart...they're not taking the time to see what kind of man he truly is before rushing into a relationship that could go into some really dark and spooky territory. Post Reply
View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 28 Jul, 2011 07:21 AM I don't like it when I start talking to a girl here and then they start adding stuff to their profile about how they are looking for someone handsome and athletic. It wasn't there when I sent the first message, so why the sudden change? I may not be either of those things, but I am trying to get into better shape. And I agree that too many are looking for the "perfect" marriage, even at a very young age. They have a list of what they "know" they want in a husband, and they're not even 20 years old. And they're not willing to consider that God may have something different for them. Finally, and really this a problem that probably everyone runs into at some point, you message someone who you think you might connect with, and they don't respond. They say they'll talk to anyone or are willing to make lots of friends, but won't respond to your message. I kinda felt like this was just a list of complaints, and I think I'll stop for now. Post Reply
View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 28 Jul, 2011 02:00 PM Preferences are good. It's when someone has no standards that you should really worry. Marriage is forever, that's what the word says, so why would any girl want to marry someone she doesn't want to be with forever? :) People should learn to find someone who loves them for their flaws instead of chastising people for not loving them for their flaws. Post Reply
View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 28 Jul, 2011 05:24 PM MsMarvel, I wasn't saying people shouldn't have preferences. I was referring to past situations where I've messaged a young woman, to which she responded, but then added their preferences after they responded, and it felt like they were using that to get me to stop messaging them. It would have been better if they had just said they weren't interested. But I suppose I didn't explain well enough, and that is completely my fault, so please do not read this as if it was written in anger. I am not angry, just clarifying. Post Reply
View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 28 Jul, 2011 08:11 PM I think there is a difference between reasonable and unreasonable preferences, what I mean is if the preferences involve what a Godly woman should want in a husband that is reasonable and should be a preference. personality traits, common interests I think are reasonable to list. I think when it becomes unreasonable is when there is a laundry list of specific traits either physical or personality wise. Like "he must be this tall to ride this ride" (I don't mean it that way get your mind out of the gutter :goofball:) or he must have this hair color, must be thin, or must be muscular, or must be of this race, or must like cats, or must like skydiving, etc. Perhaps the word preference may be a little ambiguous here. A preference to me is not necessarily a set in stone must have. You go to DQ and you want a cone but you prefer chocolate but also would be ok with vanilla. if they are out of chocolate you're still ok cause vanilla is good too. Getting back to dating and what someone is looking for at least for me there are things I look for that are must haves and beyond that are preferences and my preferences on different things carry different weight in who I find interesting enough to contact. For me the must have things are that she's a genuine Christian, demonstrates that in words and actions, is seeking to grow in faith and I look for a compatible personality and that can't always be put into words but is more something you get a sense of the more you know someone. Beyond that I have preferences that may or may not decide whether I contact her or not. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 28 Jul, 2011 09:04 PM See my big thing is with preferences you dont even have to have an ice cream from DQ or ice cream at all. Prefernces shouldn't be used as standards surley you women get tired of running into preferences that obstruct your way. Whats funney is for all the laundy list of stuff they want NONE of them deserve a man, and more broadly NONE OF US DESREVE GODS BLESSING why would God bless you if your going to be a spoiled unaprecitive haughty brat about it. Secular women are more humble than MOST of you. I cant see Jesus in alot of the ppl I see on here because theyre too busy treating God like hes some type of cosmic santa clause. He didnt promise us a spouse (ladies) for a reason...one person does he promise a GIFT of a prudent wife, and thats to a man who PLEASES HIM...are you ladies prudent or wise, than your not a gift, and therefore you should be content with who God gives you too, unless your going to make the effort and die to yourselves (men included) to be more like Him. Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	What don't you like about some girls on this site... Posted : 29 Jul, 2011 12:47 AM Kaynine! :eat: Post Reply

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