Author	Thread: Why are we too choosy?
uniquecrystalheart74 View Profile History	Why are we too choosy? Posted : 1 Jul, 2011 05:18 PM I usually read in the profiles, why am I online looking for the one for me? Maybe because where we are all singles are either taken, in a relationship or married. But why is it that there are so many profiles yet it is still so very hard for us to find the one? Before, I would only like someone from my own race until I realize it is not about the race or the country where you are but it is in the sincerity of the heart and the truthfulness of the faith. Also, we tend to be too picky, that we give a conclusion about the person by looking at the pictures, reading the profile without even getting to know the person first. So, do you also wonder why us, Christians, are too choosy and too picky? Until when are you going to be choosy and picky just to make sure the person is the one already for you? (^_~) Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Why are we too choosy? Posted : 1 Jul, 2011 07:28 PM I would have to agree, since God promised no one a spouse (except He promised did say a prudent wife is a gift from the Lord)...furthermore no one deserves a wife, or a husband...I think it would help to have that perspective. :) Post Reply
uniquecrystalheart74 View Profile History	Why are we too choosy? Posted : 2 Jul, 2011 03:40 AM As I woke up today... I think that the answer to my question is that we are looking for somebody who can make us feel a special feeling, who can make our heart beats. If you check the profiles, most men and women are like the "ONE"... specially when I get to read that the man is very romantic, loves to communicate. There are so many great guys and gals. But I realize that I don't want to force anything nor rush into anything just because the guy is great and has all the good qualities. Specially that their faith is at the top of the list which is most important for all of us. I am hoping and praying that my next is already the man who will be my husband for a lifetime. It is great if love will naturally grow between the two of you in the process of getting to know each other. So, maybe we just need to be open for any possibilities.(^_^) Good day to everyone!(^_~) Post Reply
uniquecrystalheart74 View Profile History	Why are we too choosy? Posted : 2 Jul, 2011 03:43 AM Thanks for always sharing your thoughts Rabbit32(^_^) Post Reply
uniquecrystalheart74 View Profile History	Why are we too choosy? Posted : 2 Jul, 2011 03:45 AM If I may add, you have beautiful children(^_^) Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Why are we too choosy? Posted : 2 Jul, 2011 02:02 PM I apeciate that, and I am thnkful they didn't get their good looks from me. :) Post Reply
uniquecrystalheart74 View Profile History	Why are we too choosy? Posted : 2 Jul, 2011 10:34 PM Well, I believe that you contributed to the good looks as well(^_^) Post Reply