Author	Thread: why do guys run away
Admin	why do guys run away Posted : 25 Jun, 2011 09:08 PM why do guys run away when they find out a female has a baby or kids and the same why do some women do the samething Post Reply
View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 25 Jun, 2011 09:32 PM The reason for this is that in almost every sitaution involving children,Both men and women gauge the relationship through the CHILDREN. Both might see how their children are being treated by the prospective mate. Also they will see how the children interact with that person. Children can also be vindictive towards the person which their Dad or Mom are with. They will their relationship with Dad or Mom,in order to destroy the way dad or mom sees the other person. To turn dad and mom against others. This is not true in all relationships. Shalom Meanie Post Reply
View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 25 Jun, 2011 09:42 PM well that i understand some children are hurt by the divorce or seperation of there parents and in a lot of cases would rather have there parents back together then to see them with someone new now in my case my baby is 6 months old he himself can nit make or break a relationship and the dad i do not have contact so in some cases is it also they dont want to have drama with the person ex Post Reply
joesgeo View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 25 Jun, 2011 10:08 PM Probably because they wonder what kind of baggage there is from the previous relationship, and they also don't want to be stuck with someone else's child, and they also wonder if the woman fears commitment. Post Reply
View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 25 Jun, 2011 10:26 PM so wouldnt that also make the guy afraid of commitment just because a female has a baby or children and is a single parent does not mean she is afraid of commitmen in my case the guy that got me preagnant didnt want anything to do with me when i told him i was preagnant some women are single because the choose to be so they dont have to go through all the drama and bs and thats the same with some guys and who knows maybe they were in a relationship were it just didnt work out no fault on either side it just wasnt meant to be we all are just quick to jump to conclusions about why things are they way they are and you cant honestly know the truth unlsess u have had a conversation with the other person everybody deserves a chance Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 25 Jun, 2011 10:46 PM I know how you feel, I am a custodial parent of three, and I know that most women are full of it when they only say something like "I love kids" and "I want to have lots of kids" etc..I know they want their own kids. My children are well behaved, and will accept any woman who will love them because they have a maj' void in their life because their mom doesn't se them all that much. On the other hand I can't force someone to accept us no matter how god I am, or they are....I don't think it's fair to expect any one to accept us, even though I wish they did. Some ppl are just not suited, or ready to be a parent, and dropping that on them may not be what is best. :) Post Reply
Sugar_and_Spice View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 25 Jun, 2011 11:08 PM Some guys if not most are afraid of commitment. So I think when the find out the woman already has kids of her own, they have a tendency to back off. It is not easy to raise kids of your own, the more if it is not yours. But I pray, hope, believe and claim, that the Lord will give not only a husband, but also a father to my son (who has not known his father btw) Rabbit32 I am praying also that the Lord will give you a wife and a mother to your children (who all look wonderful!) :prayingf: Post Reply
View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 26 Jun, 2011 12:28 AM i pray that all of us single parents will find the husband or wife that we are meant to be with there is nothing more pleasing then to be a parent i know it can be rough on someone to enter into a relationship with someone that already has children but unless your willing to give it a chance to see were things will go then you will never know what could have been i personally would rather take a chance on someone then to later down the road think what might have been if you get your heart broken then it wasnt meant to be you just pick up the peices and move on eventually you will meet that special someone Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 26 Jun, 2011 01:19 AM IDK, I would rather have a woman who has it in her heart to be mother of my children, than to rest my hope on a chance. Remember it will take alot of grace and courage for another person to fill the shoes that were vacant, but God os a goo God, and witholds no good thing from those whose walk is righteous. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 26 Jun, 2011 03:38 AM Easy...some guys are losers, some guys are idiots, some guys can't make up their mind, some guys do not know their mind, some guys are immature, some guys do not know a good thing if it bit them in the butt, some guys are not ready for a relationship, some guys do not have an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ...how many answers do you want or need? Post Reply
View Profile History	why do guys run away Posted : 26 Jun, 2011 06:04 AM In some cases it�s a simple matter of not wanting someone else�s child. It wouldn�t be in my case, but I have known people who were rejected by their step parent. Everything is ok, until they have another child between them. Just look at Sarah and Hagar or Onan. This issue goes way back. Post Reply

First

Page : 1 2

Next  2 >>

Last