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shalom716

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Posted : 6 Jun, 2011 03:38 AM

I just wanted to ask another guy what he thinks of this...



after talking with a guy via email for 2-3 wks. the guy says,



" I hope you don't think I'm forgetful or shallow, but I don't remember you from the dating site, could you tell me where you're from and send me a picture, hope to hear from you soon."



I really don't know what to think???

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bcpianogal

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Posted : 6 Jun, 2011 05:50 AM

Wow. I'm not a guy, but I'd say you need to RUN!!!!! Fast, and in the opposite direction. If he can't even remember who you are, you are likely only one of many ladies he is talking to. Not that there's anything wrong with talking to more than one girl online before you are actually "in a relationship" with one of them, but he should at least try to keep them straight!

Another option is that he has short-term memory loss...



Either way, there is something that sounds suspicious to me about this situation.

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shalom716

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Posted : 6 Jun, 2011 06:13 AM

Thank you for taking the time to respond, I appreciate your input.



The strange thing was he said he has not had any interesting responses on the dating site.

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Posted : 6 Jun, 2011 11:41 AM

if you have had an ongoing conversation for 2 or 3 weeks with many messages back and forth then i would say that's odd. but if it has been under 6 messages then i could relate to him a little sadly. mainly because as a guy you want to talk to all the girls you are interested in and to see if there is any potential. it's sad, but having so many conversations at once is hard to keep tagged whose story goes with which girl. at least he is being honest with you. this is mainly why i don't spend a ton of time on here as much as i did, cause i felt like i wasn't really getting to know anyone, lesson learned :P

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Posted : 6 Jun, 2011 06:44 PM

This has happened to me.

If this guy is talking with so many ladies he can't remember you, then he hasn't been serious about getting to know you.

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Posted : 7 Jun, 2011 04:20 AM

thanks for your responses



It confused me because he said he had not much luck on the sites he was on, so he sort of made it seem like he was not talking to other females, but I guess he wasn't being honest.

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Posted : 7 Jun, 2011 06:12 PM

sounds like he could be a scammer or something.

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Posted : 8 Jun, 2011 03:15 PM

I think godslamb hit the nail on the head! Tony P could be right too.:glow:

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Posted : 9 Jun, 2011 12:05 PM

Sounds like He is juggling to many others to keep up.

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