Author	Thread: Husbandmen
Admin	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 02:11 PM Husbandman is one who cares for, tends, protects and is in charge of a garden. Yet the modern garden takes care of it self with automatic irrigation, chemical weed killer and pesticides. The modern garden cries out; 'care for me as I see fit, I need not your tending, rather tend to my every desire. I need not your protection until I ask for it, and btw, you think you're in charge of me?...LOL! Brothers this is why there are so many unemployed Husbandmen; our services are no longer needed or desired except by the rarest of gardens Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 03:28 PM Most men today don't understand husbandry, and most women don't know what it means to be a wife. Honestly both are to blame, but who leads? The man. Men won't lead and women won't follow. Oh and a lot of women get yelled at and treated badly by men, this does not qualify as husbandry. LOL. We do want you to protect us, especially from you. We do want you to lead and be in charge but do it without bullying. And maybe you could make a good decision that's unselfish once and awhile, and consult the Lord in what you do. By the way, men have selfish desires as well, and most are not ashamed of making them known. Sorry to be so blunt, subtleties are for the sly. Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 03:44 PM A lot of the reasons why things are wrong in relationships is because men act effeminate, literally like women. Running from things, not interested in commitment, they're not seeking the Lord, they want to please themselves first, most of these guys can't handle the thought of getting married and having to be there for their wife, and work and be a good and just male presence. And women, they act like men, they try to control men, boss them around, make their moves first by asking the men to marry them. Women asking men to marry them. How topsy turvy is this world! Women who ask men out, and by them things and treat them like pets, instead of letting the man be the man and do those things for her. It's so frustrating to see that everything is backwards. That men are not men, and women aren't women. Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 04:25 PM Amen! and Amen!, MsMarvel!! :applause: I'd LOVE to find a leading Christian man! I'd follow in a heartbeat! :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 04:47 PM MsMarvel, My post is about "Need" and the modern world we live in where spouses are not needed as in contrast to back in the day when it took two to make it, when people needed spouses. Somehow 'need' is a stronger incentive than 'want'....lol. You posts however address the Genesis curse which I think few understand, therefore I will post it in the 'Ask a Girl' section. Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 04:49 PM Yes everything is backwards upsidedown; Todays news headline: Marriage no longer majority in american households: The American family has reached a milestone: according to the Census Bureau, married couples are now no longer a majority in American households. �The days of Ozzie and Harriet have faded into the past,� said William Frey, the senior demographer at Brookings who analyzed the data. [...] Today, traditional patterns have been turned upside down. Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 04:55 PM Yes, that one Genesis curse God gave to Eve ONLY in the New Living Translation. Can't wait. :/ Post Reply
nepb47 View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 10:49 PM Back in the day a woman only had one option- get married and make babies, therefore she needed a man to provide for her. And husbands needed the wife to take care of the house because he worked out in the field, mutually dependent. Now most women work outside the home, leaving the care of her children to others, so she does not need a husband to provide for her. And husbands can buy what they need at the store and when they get home they can throw a load in the wash machine on their way by. So you are right nobody needs a spouse any more. In an ideal world the way it used to be seems like a better option, but in truth even in the good old days marriages were not always happy. The bottom line is that selfishness makes a marriage bad no matter where or how you live. NB Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 30 May, 2011 11:08 PM I wanna live in Mayberry! Post Reply
Samsonoxide View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 1 Jun, 2011 12:45 AM i understand what you are saying at when these days are a lot different then what they were back not even 60 years ago. times are different. I can live life without a woman, i have so far and i can for the rest of my life. But it is a deep desire to have a wife, a life partner, someone to confide in, counsel with, share the joys and pains of life with and i pray everyday for her and that God will shape me into the man that He wants and secondly, what she wants also. definently a weird world we live in now, and i can relate to the frustrations with how people treat eachother or don't step like they should, and i hate to admit i've been apart of it, but i think if we keep our sights on God and live for Him, he will provide everything else we would desire. Post Reply
View Profile History	Husbandmen Posted : 1 Jun, 2011 05:04 AM A woman�s body is made differently that a man�s body. Her body is more suited for childbirth and in general is smaller and quicker than men�s. God Created Men bigger and stronger for a Reason�so that men could be able to Protect Women and Hunt and Provide for her and the Family. God did not do this so that men could Dominate Women, but again so that he could be their Protector. That being said�there are many Women that do not need a man to protect them � still I feel that we are Mandated by GOD to Protect Women. I also believe that we are also to be the Head of the Household. Many men take this to mean that they are �lord of the manor� and that they are to be SERVED by the wife. On the contrary�being the head means that you are last in line (as it should be) and first to Serve your Family�s Needs. The 60�s saw the advent of the �Pill� which changed the gender landscape and freed and empowered women to be more like men. Many men have not been able to handle these �new women� and have reverted to their �more feminine� instincts. I believe that most women want a man that will lead them. A man that they feel safe with and whom they trust with their life. I liken it to a Filly that is �spirited� and �hot-blooded�. It takes someone that is Strong and Steady and Knowledgeable. Someone that is Equaled to the task that will in time win Trust and Respect. My point is that men need to be MEN! Not bullies or tyrants or 200 pound babies, but the men that God Created then to be. It all starts by first Humbling yourself to God and learning from His Word. It�s a neverending process. Post Reply

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