Author	Thread: The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 09:07 AM Gentlemen, please don't get crazy here. Don't get critical and don't judge me. I'm bold and I say what others think, so for real, don't think I'm a "bad girl" or anything, I just want opinions. We are all family, or should be, in Christ. With that said, as my brothers (cause I've already asked the ladies on our forum), answer this question for me..... Is pleasuring oneself wrong? Please read between the lines because I don't think I can use the M word here. If it is wrong, what biblical backing do you have? And what do you do to make it through lonely nights and vulnerable moments?
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 06:42 AM Twosparrows, you know you're my buddy!!!! I didn't say anything to you because you were not attacking my character...lol I hope your day is going well!
View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 07:36 AM MsMarvel, The post HolyGhostgirl is speaking of was mine, I forget which thread it was on, but we had some playful flirtatious banter in line with the topic post. It really should not of been brought up, however since it was, it must be said I was the one who started it. HolyGhostgirl, I am the one gulity of verbalizing my incredibly good taste! * If it helps, and I hope I and not grabbing a dog by the ears, (see proverbs), You both are great Christian women, in my opinion the ONLY place you two got a little off track was when you got off topic and questioned each others integrity. ( for what it's worth )
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 07:46 AM Twosparrows, I like your un-biased perspective and I respect what you said. Thanks for the compliment! Anyone with the Holy Spirit should know when somebody else is filled with Him, too. You know, I used to have a horse when I was a little girl. His name was Mr. Ed...lol...and he was C-R-A-Z-Y. We had to sell him. I think he was a Tennessee Walker. I kind of miss him now though...:glow:
View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 08:32 AM Yeah, even some of the crazy ones are fun to hug on and to go for a crazy ride when your in the right mood, but horses like people all have their idiosyncrasies which make them unbearable for the long haul...lol!
View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 10:25 AM Some where in the New testament Paul writes, young men are to go to men for counciling and young women are to go to women for counciling. Holy Ghost girl do you see what you did here. You should have sought out council from a older woman in private. the question is ok, but how it was done was not. I just found this post and wish to advise you in a kind manner. This is a gentle message. Dennis PS. peace be unto you. :peace:
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 10:41 AM Thanks Dennis. Maybe an older woman wasn't available. Maybe an older woman was acting like the judgemental ppl on here. At the end of the day, I asked the question for many. Some people didn't like it, some people was happy I asked. The bible also says we should seek godly counsel. Man, woman, child. Doesn't matter. If I had a question about fornication, I don't have to go find a woman to help me. I can go to whomever or wherever the Lord sends me. If you scroll up, you'll see another one of my posts about CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS. You might want to respond to that one cause I'm bored wit this post now...lol
View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 01:02 PM Excuses dont excuse.
View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 02:26 PM It`s a touchy subject. We discussed pre martial sex on these forums and nobdy seemed too offended by it. What`s the difference? I suspect it`s because most christians have never committed the sin of pre maritial sex and feel no guilt or condemnation by it. On the other hand everybody has at least "experimented" with this and have has guilt and condemnation because of it. So when it`s brought up in discusion your flesh rises up and get`s offended by it because your flesh doesn`t like the condemnation of it. Romans 8 1There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Tulip89 View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 04:10 PM Again, I think the way the question was asked had a lot to do with people's reactions. Something more along the lines of, "I know this could be a touchy or uncomfortable subject for people, but I think we have the freedom in Christ to discuss even taboo topics," would likely have gotten a much better response from people than, "I'm gonna ask what I want because that's just who I am, and if you don't like it, forget you." HGG wasn't the only one, but we need to check our posts to make sure that they are as loving, joyful, peaceful, patient, kind, gentle, good, faithful, and self controlled as possible.
View Profile History	The M Word--And I aint talkin bout marriage Posted : 18 Apr, 2011 04:22 PM Right... I personally have no problem with the question being raised here (though as it's regarding a Christian perspective rather than male attitudes, I feel it'd be better under a different category). HOWEVER, it seems to be causing tension and sucklike with some members which is best for all if it can be avoided. So, can I point out that these are *public* forums which any member of CDFF is entitled to post on; and as we are all individuals with our own interpretation and experience of God's word - some questions WILL offend some people, as will some answers. Following Jesus is tough; He says we need to be as wise as serpents yet innocent as doves. How about we all cut each other some slack 'cos there's more interpretations than just our own...

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