Author	Thread: What do you dislike about women?
Admin	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 30 Mar, 2011 04:57 PM Okay, I'm not really one to fuel any kind of animosity, but what frustrates you most about what we do, or how we act? Remember, we're pretty easy to offend, and pretty soft, so be gentle. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 07:47 PM Women have seriously frustrated me over the years to the point where I've often thought about giving up on women altogether because I just grew sick of all of their drama and senseless immaturity. I could go on forever with things about women that tick me off. Some of the biggest stand out issues for me include but are not limited to....... *Women who are stuck up and act as though I don't exist. *Christian women who are so "holier than thou" that they are "too goodie good" for anyone else. *Being told that I'm a "nice guy, but.... [fill in the blank]" when getting dumped or rejected. You know what they say about nice guys, right? UGH! The term "nice guy" has completely lost it's value and meaning in my life. *Women who won't take the time to get to know me despite the fact that I'm a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady while they go out with the men who treat women like garbage. *The elderly women at my church (including the pastor's wife) always tell me that I'd make a great husband someday. Why can't single christian women my age figure that out??? Did the elderly women of their time have better standards or do women develop their brain cells later in life??? *Christian women always say that the men should do the initiating when it comes to pursuing relationships, but yet when I ask a girl out or show any partial sign of interest in a girl, she acts like I just committed the most unforgiveable of criminal offenses. Because "God forbid" that I should dare have any interest of anyone of the opposite sex! *rolls eyes* *Women who respond to the first couple or so of my online dating messages, then suddenly I never hear from them again. *Women who judge me as "unfit boyfriend/husband material" just because I like hard rock and heavy metal. So I don't have an itunes library that consists entirely of Michael W. Smith and Steven Curtis Chapman. So crucify me! *Women who I meet on these online sites misjudging me as a "creep" or "pushy" when all I'm doing is trying to get to know them. It's not rocket science ladies. In order to get to know someone, you have to COMMUNICATE with that person. What a concept! That is all I'm going to list for now. Believe me when I say that I could go on forever with this. I'm just scratching the surface. I could go on more, but I'll be nice and stop here. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 07:49 PM I'm far more prone to taking too long to do my make-up and hair, I mean at that rate, it'd take days to climb that mountain, right?:ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 07:59 PM jahjahwarrior, You should totally lower your age range so I can write you, I have a solution to all of your problems. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 08:07 PM Ok, I just lowered it to 20. Fire away. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 08:10 PM thank you. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 09:20 PM I suppose for me, the biggest thing would be a woman who can't read me enough to know when she should back down from a disagreement. Not that I am an expert on females by any means, but I would imagine it would be easier for a female to be the one to back down from a heated disagreement than for a male. I can back down from arguments easily, but if i'm provoked, I go all out. Sadly, I fell in that trap before. What would help is if a woman would just back off a little bit and let me cool down. Things I've learned is that women want to talk about problems to sort them out, and men want straight answers, so even when a woman is talking out something, men can take it offensive, so we try to solve the problem by changing the woman's opinion. But then she feels ignored and suppressed and argues back. If she could just understand that all is needed is for her to just back off without saying anything (I.E. "Whatever, believe what you want, I'm going out") She just has to say "Okay." and walk away. And if a heated man pursues her, just keep quiet, because I Promise he will feel like a jerk and come apologizing on his hands and knees. He won't change his mind about what the disagreement was on, but he will be sorry for even getting in the argument. Basically, I think some women should understand a man is programmed as a provider/warrior type person, and at some points won't back down. The best thing at those points is for a female to "Back down" so the man feels "Victiorious" Untill he realizes he hurt her, and makes amends and learns from mistakes. Also, if you want to talk about feelings it would be really helpful to explain to the man "None of this is directly related to you, I'm just trying to sort out feelings, so please don't take it to heart" or something along those lines. otherwise, if theres a problem all we hear is "You did this, you did that, it's all your fault." If it involves him, or even men for that matter. I think maybe I sounded like a jerk. I hope I got my point clear. I'm not saying women should just be quiet and let a man be a jerk. I'm just saying from time to time we get argumentative, and it sucks and hurts when someone tries to "Best" us at a debate. By no means do I suggest a dominant male ruling over a woman. That's not even biblical. We should be a loving leader. I just wish some women understood how far we feel we need to prove a point sometimes haha. And when theres resistance, we sometimes hear "You're wrong!" and it snowballs. Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 10:11 PM You didn't by any chance just get done fighting with a woman, did you, Boxer? :ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 2 Apr, 2011 07:15 AM Interesting food for thought. I really liked Boxer4Christ�s post, as it makes sense. Of course, not all guys are like you Boxer. To say all guys are like this would be generalizing. But it really helped me understand you guys a bit better. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 2 Apr, 2011 07:37 AM hey guys, when we're dumping on you, usually we arent looking for answers, we just want to be heard. Not patronized. We are natural communicators :) Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you dislike about women? Posted : 2 Apr, 2011 07:48 AM riveroflife1 is cool. C-O-O-L. Post Reply

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