Author	Thread: Is Ethnicity an Issue?
TLSmiles View Profile History	Is Ethnicity an Issue? Posted : 6 Jul, 2010 09:36 AM I�m black. Okay � You�re still there, good, because usually by now the white guys start to leave � :laugh: ... But really ... Ethnicity truly doesn�t matter to me and I�ve talked to guys across the whole spectrum. However, this problem only arrises when I talk to white guys, I�ve had varying responses like, �you know I could never introduce you to my parents, right?� Or, �I just wanted to know what it would be like,� as if dating another ethnicity would give them magical powers. When I go out and meet people, guys will talk to my white girlfriends, but seem to overlook me. Now, I�m wondering if that it because: �black� is simply unattractive to them, they fear the culture is different, they assume I will be an �angry black woman,� they are intimidated by me, they�re scared I won�t like them because they are white? I maybe overanalyzing the situation too much, maybe I�m just straight up ugly and boring and that�s why they�re not interested� :goofball: And no need to say "they're the one missing out," lol, because I know God has someone in store for me. :MrT: "I pity the fool!" (ah, I had to, never thought I'd use that emodicon!) So I guess my question is, why do white men not seem to be interested in me? :stop: For the brothas reading I have nothing against you, I�m open to anyone as long as they are God fearing and it is evident by their fruit. Post Reply
TLSmiles View Profile History	Is Ethnicity an Issue? Posted : 1 Aug, 2010 05:59 PM amico, it wasn't directed at you, so no worries. I don't know if i find her question interesting, but moreso her response "interesting." ethnicity is a deal breaker for some so i understand why she asked it, but it's weird she just said, "interesting." So, hmmm ... that's interesting ... lol Post Reply
View Profile History	Is Ethnicity an Issue? Posted : 3 Aug, 2010 11:08 AM I am a child of God first and for those that see my color as matter of qualification, God bless them and they are free to maintain their perspectives. This is not idealism, but an acceptance that not all see the world as I do and I respect each person's views. But color, race, age, social position, etc... considerations perhaps, but certainly not the deciding factors. Hold tight; prayer and persistence. Post Reply

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