Author	Thread: Sex in A Relationship
Admin	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 02:30 PM I have a question. In relationships you talk to get to know one another. If things work out the relationship will progress into something more. My problem is that I can NEVER get to that point because the question always comes up "Do/Have you had sex? My response is always and will always be no I really do want to wait till i'm married. There's nothing wrong with that but guys always stop talking to me after that? Why is that important for guys to have sex before marriage? Before some one says "Christian guys don't do that" They definatley do. I've had this experience way to much and I just want to know why this is? Am I the only one left in the World who wants to save it for marriage? Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 11 Jun, 2010 07:35 PM I enjoyed reading people's responses in this forum. I think this is a question that plagues everyone, especially Christians. In today's society, it seems like the "in" thing to have premarital sex, but I am so encouraged that there are others who disagree with that like I do. I think it's fine to "make out" so to speak, but full intimacy should be reserved for marriage due to the many reasons that many of you stated. When one waits for marriage, I think something very special and divine is included in the marriage. I also believe that men and women who wait until marriage are less likely to cheat. Their ability to wait until marriage shows their ability to control their desires. I was so happy to read many men's responses in this forum especially. Most woman I've met agree about this, but I've heard it's more difficult for men in general to wait. I'm so glad you guys are out there to stand up for the sanctity of marriage! You're role models! And congrats to women who see this as a good thing too! You also are role models!:applause: Post Reply
itsdagodinme View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 9 Aug, 2010 11:29 AM Stand your ground. Continue to honor God and he will honor you by blessing you with a good Christian man! Post Reply
hachaliah08 View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 09:53 PM From a Christian male perspective, I will not have sex outside of marriage. For one it dishonors God, and it also cancels out whatsoever I have been praying to Him about. God is not obligated to reward disobedience. I believe the Christian men and women who do decide to have sex before marriage have not had a Damascus road encounter with Christ yet. I believe that they have had encounters in the church, but not with. Christ. Post Reply
itsdagodinme View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 09:40 AM Hi Hachaliah08! I totally agree with you. Sex should be within the marriage realm! God honors those who honors him! Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 11:40 PM hardness of heart & conscience is how we yield to "sin". but God really does ask us to be "holy... as He is Holy". do we continue in blantant sin... without suffering the consequences thereof... thru disease, sorrow, heartache, etc??? we suffer the "death" that sin brings. whatever the sin we "indulge in" and try to "justify" / "deny" / or "soap-box"... so what's left to say? may we abide in Jesus, call upon and recv the help of The Holy Spirit, and have faith that we can THRU CHRIST walk the life God calls us to... not of our own power >>>> but by His Live alive in us!!!!! coz in the end~ the wood, hay and stubble will be burned away & only the pure gold of who we are in Christ will STAND.... as the Wheat and the weeds are seperated according the lives they lived. God is Good Our sins, and the fall-out thereof.... is our own doing... along with the wicked serpent's tempting. *LIFE AND DEATH IS IN THE POWER OF THE TONGUE. let us speak Life and Live! *THY KINGDOM COME THY WILL BE DONE ON EARTH / >IN US... LORD GOD... ACCORDING TO YOUR WILL >>>AS IT IS IN HEAVEN *IT IS NO LONGER I WHO LIVES... BUT :hearts:CHRIST JESUS:hearts: WHO LIVES IN ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 5 Feb, 2011 06:52 AM Dear Sister I am responding to your comment on sex before marriage. My Bible tells me that it is wrong and it is not a matter of discussion. it is about being to accept that if it is in the Bible it is true. Sex is not only a physical commitment, but spiritual and emotional involment, especial for women. And when GOD says our bodies are his temple, ask your self this question, is my body worthy to called such. I am not saying that we Christians do not sin. But realising that our lives are no longer ours to do as we please or as men desires. And besides, if a man is not going to marry you, he still wont marry you even if you have sex with him 100 times befor marriage. And if God says this is the man for you he will make everything right between the two and both of you shall agree. your wedding night will be something to be remembered and most importantly he will respect even more. I also have the same problem that once men realise that it is sex after marriage they actualyy get turned off or try to convince me that it does not realy matter since we are going to spend the rest of our life together. it is not always true. so dear sister dont loose heart and hold on tight to you faith. wish you all the best and may the Lord bring you your other half. Irish Post Reply
View Profile History	Sex in A Relationship Posted : 7 Oct, 2011 05:40 PM If "Christian" guys are having sex or wanting sex before they get married, then stay FAR away from them. Not all people are perfect, but God does clearly state many times in Scripture, even in the Ten Commandments, Do not commit adultery. Post Reply

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