Author	Thread: Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage?
Admin	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Jan, 2010 07:06 PM I only date Christian guys, but I am having a hard time finding one who believes it is wrong to have premarital sex. I tell them that I would like to have a pure relationship with them, and they tell me that it is only "natural" to want each other sexually. Here's my question to you guys .... Are there any guys that have the same goal as me? The goal being to have a dating relationship with someone, fall in love with them, get married and then have sex? Or am I fighting a losing battle? Can't wait to hear the responses!!! Faithful2end Post Reply
christianb1955 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 13 Jun, 2010 07:22 PM "I only date Christian guys, but I am having a hard time finding one who believes it is wrong to have premarital sex. I tell them that I would like to have a pure relationship with them, and they tell me that it is only "natural" to want each other sexually." In my opinion, if a man or woman who states they're Christian and are saying such things aren't really practicing Christians. They're hiding behind the word "Christian" in order to deceive....remember that the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy. I have encountered the same kind of Christians! I say, rebuke their behaviors, RUN and then pray for their hearts to be truly open to God's guidance. They're lost souls!!!! Blessings, Christine Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 14 Sep, 2010 09:57 PM The bottom line is: Do you truly trust God to know how to live your life so your joy may be complete. If you do, why would you allow yourself to defile yourself and another Christian(woman), by doing that which God has said is wrong. I admit to making this mistake and it will always end up badly. A man who asks for sex without marriage does not respect the woman, nor does he respect the temple that his body is meant to be. I was told by a pastor once that if you are sure that you are in love and are definitely getting married, then why have a long engagement to allow temptation to take a foothold in a relationship. If you are thinking that you may give in then perhaps the relationship is built on lust or should be able to choose to love this woman for the rest of your life, then just get married but be ready to keep a commitment to the one you have given herself to you. We all have choices to make and a real Christian man and woman keeps their word to love, honor and obey until death makes them part. Love and marriage done God's way is a beautiful thing and the man that finds a wife is blessed and should show her everyday how much she is loved and how beautiful she is. IMHO Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 18 Sep, 2010 04:11 AM Although the majority of the world have forgotten what the bible says regarding having sex before marriage, I even at my age am standing firm on what I know is right. Been married twice. First husband died and second one wanted to relieve his youth again. I now am single and have made up my mind that I was going to do what my heart and God exspects from me. How can I live the christian life if I become intmate with someone before marriage. Its hard to find anyone that would stand by this belief. I plan to stay single until that person who believes the same way comes along. If he does not come into my life, it's okay and if he does, it was meant to be. Take care and God Bless. Post Reply
Christiancowboy1 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 2 Dec, 2010 06:20 PM It's not even a thing you should question one bit! God bless you for waiting. If a man can not wait and honor the Lord right along with you, then he is not the one God intends or desires that you are yoked to equally. Tdays society , and evenost who call themselves Christians, do not hold to the word or desire to honor it in anyways. Most today, live by their own justified ways. people are as Christ said, "they do not understand" They do not see nor beleive how truly wonderful a life in Christ can be. How a couple who honors the Lord in this aspect can look back years later and see how it held their marriage together. Because they honored one another and charished the relationship and what God had created between them. To say one has only been with their spouse is something to treasure. Just as all the ways of the Lord are blessings which bless us more and more as we honor him. Those who do not, or who have been married before as myself, have a sense of guilt, shame, etc...inside you it can make you not value your next mate or charish him or her as we should. One wrong leads to another, and then just not caring, nor charishing anything. The exact reason people get divorced, because they do not charish the relationship and moreless even honor the Lord. We live in have it my way, and then justify it beofre the Lord and the world. Im sorry I rambled on so much. This subject is near and ear to my heart. I strive to share the truth of being equally yoked with everyone I can, and the deep details also. Most just think someone who says they beleive, and then stop there. But it goes deeper, and should not be entered into untill one understands who they are in Christ, their gifts, direction, beleifes, etc.. then allow the Lord to yoke you, and prove in time it is of him and not just your own thinking or desire. I wish you all the Lord's best. Blessings Always, David Post Reply
Christiancowboy1 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 2 Dec, 2010 06:47 PM To take this further. Most or alot of us here have been married before. Thus we have been with another sexually. I myself have married before and had hoped with all my heart to only be married one time. Well here I am, divorced and now carrying all the baggage or past memories from what was not of the Lord. Just as Christ said Father forgive for they know not what they do, we did not know what we were doing neithe. Some may think of yes they did, but truth is most people have no idea what means to be equally yoked, and then allow the Lord to prove all things in time. In otherwords, the true meaning of following Christ, which means his will not our own. He created for his wil to be happy and to bless us. The only thing is we just do not beleive as we say we do, nor honor him for the truth of life he has set out before us, with all his guid lines. Now finally realizing I did not understand what being equally yoked meant nor anything about his will for marriage, etc... Now realizing and truly giving my life to him, and receiving the New Life I have in Christ. I now see that this new life also entails leaving all the old past behind, seeing myself and also a futrue mate if it is the Lord's will, as pure in him. Yes, our past marriage was not of him nor did it homor him because we did not understand. Now with understanding and truth, we can be equally yoked in him in our new life in him. In otherwords, it being a heart committment to him and honoring him. This is were we must seek the heart of a future spouse, just as Christ said it is the heart he desires. We must seek their heart and whats inside. Letting time prove all things. If a mate can not see you as pure now in Christ, then what do you have? It sure won't be of him as everyone here on this sites says they want his will and not their own. I just pray that all who read this will fully come to understand the truth of what can be in him and so much more too. A selfless marriage in the Lord lifting up one another and seeing one another as pure and as precious as our Father does through Christ, and allowing life to be his will and not your own. He created you and gave you desires, gifts, etc...beleive it that he will fullfill those in you if you honor him. Blessings to all, David Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 4 Feb, 2011 01:13 PM great post... I seem to have be the one to set the boundaries... I am praying for a man that wants to honor & glorify the Lord in all areas of his life... ;) Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 10 Jul, 2011 06:24 PM I am in the same boat! Post Reply
JanineOftheBells View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 22 Jan, 2012 12:41 PM If any boy wants you to have premarital sex but claims to be a Christian, he is deceiving himself. He is definitely not a follower of Christ if he commits sexual immorality and, worse, tries to convince you that it is okay. Stick to your guns and don't let these wolves in sheep's clothing beguile you. God be with you. Your sister in Christ, Janine Post Reply
View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 9 Oct, 2012 08:56 AM I've only been married once and we did not wait; but we were not saved. I know that the marriage bed is blessed when God is in it. Post Reply
beckym1959 View Profile History	Any Guys left that believe in Sex only within the Bounds of Marriage? Posted : 2 Nov, 2012 09:49 PM I 'm with you and I want what the Lord has for me period Post Reply

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