Author	Thread: How to find the right Lady
Admin	How to find the right Lady Posted : 14 Oct, 2012 05:14 AM I am not asking a question but would like to share with you men how I found the right lady. By becoming a leader. Godly women are looking for Godly leaders that they feel safe in following. But it is not us leading and her following. It is us finding the will of God and then walking together in that. That is where unity comes from. You see the beautiful thing is we dont have to have all the answers if we find a godly woman. We just need to be humble men who are willing to pray and seek for the answers. When a woman knows a man is sucessful not just trying to find the will of God she will feel secure and confident in her man. Finding the will of God is not about action but relationship. Relationship with God comes first and action follows. Men can tend to be men of mere action and appear Godly. God is a God of relationship. Everything He says and does comes out of Gods relating with His creation. It is easier for a woman to figure this out since they are more relational then us men. Now Im not saying become a sissy. God is no sissy. God is strength combined with passion, compassion, gentleness and most important love. The ballence of strength and weakness. Being a man who leads his woman in humility. A man who leads his woman in unity. A man who cherishs genuinly his lady. How do we become such men? Know Christ and you will be such a man. Like Paul writes learn Christ. When you have learned Christ, God will bring you the lady He has waiting for you. I guarentee this to you. When you learn Christ you will have the choice pickings of the ladies here and anywhere. When you learn Christ many of the ladies you thought were so great will seem dull. Learn Christ, M Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 05:10 AM Why are they senseless? Just because you don't care about truth doesn't mean it's wrong to. Why start a new thread when I can point it out about you in your own threads? Have you not threatened me in the past about starting threads about you? Now you encourage me to do so. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 26 Oct, 2012 10:48 AM Prov. 24:7 Wisdom is too high for a fool: he openeth not his mouth in the gate. Prov 17:28 Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding This OP cares nothing for truth. His chief concern is promoting himself as he continues to do over and over. He leans to his own understanding and then systematically promotes his misunderstanding to others. He is a pusher - selling drugs that are enticing but that will ultimately lead to death. He has demonstrated total incompetence in handling the Word of God - the Truth. In addition, he has demonstrated absolute belligerence by continuing to teach others without being willing to receive ANY instruction of his own. For weeks, I have tried to maintain a charitable impression of him while working with him both publicly and privately to rectify his Biblical errors. Now, I am denouncing him as a brother publicly. His continues to express ideas that suggest his view of the Bible is subjective, that we can all believe what we want, interpret things as we wish.. that we are free to work things out pragmatically rather than obey God when he says, "Thus saith the Lord". This is FOLLY and goes to the heart of his error. The cornerstone of this OP's thinking is Kierkegaardian existentialism and NOT Jesus Christ. He is philosophically wrong at a presuppositional level. He is not functioning from a foundation of objective Biblical revelation but rather subjective personal experience. Here are some additional unbiblical ideas from him: "The bible is not black and white, up and down. It is and it isnt." "I used to think black and white about everything in the bible until I learned not to just read words on a page but to really listen to the words, to listen to the Spirit of God in the words." "We differ in our approach to truth. No one is greater or more learned we are just who we are in our approach to Jesus who is truth." His errant position of authority/headship in a marriage relationship is very serious because it speaks directly to the Gospel itself. Christ is the bridegroom and his church the bride. Christ is the head/authority over us. Likewise, men are to follow Christ's example of headship. When this OP advances the idea that unity is the central principle of headship and not authority, he distorts the Gospel itself. Some would call this heresy. In doing this, this OP must also adopt an entirely foreign understanding of a wife's submission. One that is consistent with his own argument but that flies in the face of God and his word. He has horns like a lamb but he speaks as a dragon. He has been asked time and time again to provide Biblical support for his ideas. He has not. He has not because he cannot. Here is a another quote from his own words: "I know what I believe needs to backed up with scripture. Since this is a revelation given by God to me in understanding, now I have to do the work of finding supporting scripture. I know the bible supports its self and always will. When you made the statement that I am unable to provide scripture to support my conclusion you are right. But not for long. Now that I have the revelation I have the duty to support it through Gods Word and if I am unable to do so. I would gladly abandon it. I am confident that I will be able to show in scripture that headship/submission is all about unity and not about who makes the decisions or a wife having to obey her husband." He never supported his own ideas through God's word and he never abandoned them either. So, he has shown from his own testimony that he is either incompetent or a liar or both. If you continue to give his ideas consideration, you do so at your own peril. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 04:55 AM Your guys responses are nothing but harrassment. I kindly ask you to stop harrassing me. How is that any knd of Christ likeness to continue to harrass. Youve both had your says but now you have crossed the line. You have no right to harrass me as you do. So both of you please move on. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 05:37 AM Look he is setting it up to report us. Unfortunately for him, we are rebuking and not harassing. Scripture has even been used in hopes of him seeing the error of his ways. He still refuses to repent. He'd rather go on being manipulative. Why do you consider our posts harassment but we should not consider yours harassment? Why are you exempt from this? Why are you exempt from absolutely every criticism you bring forth against others? Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 05:38 AM You know where I stand and you know why I respond. I suppose if you really wanted me to stop responding to various things that you post, you know exactly how to achieve that as well. Other than that, you are aware that this is a Christian forum where all members are free to start threads or post to existing threads. Now let me ask you, why on a Christian website do other members have to be subjected to folks like yourself who post anti-Christian ideas over and over? Why when a Christian asks you to provide Biblical support, do you find that offensive? Why are your thoughts more important on any subject than the thoughts of others who respond? I find what you do absolutely menacing to Christians. You don't like the fact that I respond in kind. So, what now? Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 05:47 AM 3 But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. 6 For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, 7 always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. 8 Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men corrupted in mind and disqualified regarding the faith. 9 But they will not get very far, for their folly will be plain to all, as was that of those two men. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 05:53 AM 2 Tim 4 2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine. 3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; 4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. 5 But watch thou in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy ministry Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 1 Nov, 2012 10:27 AM "3 But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. 6 For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, 7 always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. 8 Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men corrupted in mind and disqualified regarding the faith. 9 But they will not get very far, for their folly will be plain to all, as was that of those two men." I think perhaps it was a mistake to quote this verse. When someone makes a post on a dating site, and you two are all over it like predators hunting prey, I can't help but attribute a lot of those admonitions to you. This is not your church. Can you show me a verse where this is biblical behavior? This would be like going up to someone having a conversation on the street, and telling them they need to shut up, or following them around yelling their sins over any conversation they try to have. Would you do that? Would that be the picture of Christ you want people to see in your lives? Acts 6 "9 Then there arose certain of the synagogue, which is called the synagogue of the Libertines, and Cyrenians, and Alexandrians, and of them of Cilicia and of Asia, disputing with Stephen. 10 And they were not able to resist the wisdom and the spirit by which he spake. 11 Then they suborned men, which said, We have heard him speak blasphemous words against Moses, and against God. 12 And they stirred up the people, and the elders, and the scribes, and came upon him, and caught him, and brought him to the council, 13 And set up false witnesses, which said, This man ceaseth not to speak blasphemous words against this holy place, and the law:14 For we have heard him say, that this Jesus of Nazareth shall destroy this place, and shall change the customs which Moses delivered us. 15 And all that sat in the council, looking stedfastly on him, saw his face as it had been the face of an angel. Acts 7 51 Ye stiffnecked and uncircumcised in heart and ears, ye do always resist the Holy Ghost: as your fathers did, so do ye. 52 Which of the prophets have not your fathers persecuted? and they have slain them which shewed before of the coming of the Just One; of whom ye have been now the betrayers and murderers: 53 Who have received the law by the disposition of angels, and have not kept it.54 When they heard these things, they were cut to the heart, and they gnashed on him with their teeth.55 But he, being full of the Holy Ghost, looked up stedfastly into heaven, and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing on the right hand of God,56 And said, Behold, I see the heavens opened, and the Son of man standing on the right hand of God.57 Then they cried out with a loud voice, and stopped their ears, and ran upon him with one accord,58 And cast him out of the city, and stoned him: and the witnesses laid down their clothes at a young man's feet, whose name was Saul.59 And they stoned Stephen, calling upon God, and saying, Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.60 And he kneeled down, and cried with a loud voice, Lord, lay not this sin to their charge. And when he had said this, he fell asleep. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 1 Nov, 2012 04:59 PM DHTM, You are speaking to men who are cluless of relational aspects. They hide behind truth because in reality they feel very insecure. Truth is all they can relate to but unfortiantly relationships are not based in truth alone. I know this because I used to be them. Thanks be it to God He has matured me beyond this sort of thinking. As we know God is not truth alone. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to find the right Lady Posted : 1 Nov, 2012 06:44 PM LTM, Many current and former members can testify to the relationships that I have built and continue to build with them based on love and truth. Sadly for you, while you continue to highlight the one relationship that you have built here, I don't believe anyone can testify to your ability to deliver truth. So, by all means continue to elevate yourself above me if it makes you feel better. :winksmile: Post Reply

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