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HolyGhostGirl

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Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 09:07 AM

Gentlemen,



please don't get crazy here. Don't get critical and don't judge me.



I'm bold and I say what others think, so for real, don't think I'm a "bad girl" or anything, I just want opinions.





We are all family, or should be, in Christ.





With that said, as my brothers (cause I've already asked the ladies on our forum), answer this question for me.....





Is pleasuring oneself wrong? Please read between the lines because I don't think I can use the M word here.



If it is wrong, what biblical backing do you have? And what do you do to make it through lonely nights and vulnerable moments?

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 12:55 PM

HGG, I think part of what caused people's reaction is that you asked the question without much tact. Boldness, especially in the face of trials can be a great personality trait, but as Christians, we're called to express ourselves within the bounds of the Fruits of the Spirit. Perhaps a little more gentleness in your comments would get better reactions from people.

HolyGhostGirl

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 12:58 PM

Elisa, I agree.



"Second, if a person has a question running around in their head like a squirrel on an exercise circle, then would we rather they ask the question in a safe Christian environment or on the street? "





My thing is, I've heard some people say it's wrong and some say nothing's wrong with it, all of them being good Christian people.





It's funny because I could have gotten the same reaction if I posted something about the Sabbath. Christians have to stop being so critical, especially of one another.



And to the people that's so appalled, you should probably chill out. You don't know who I am to the Lord, so watch your mouths! That's one lesson He has taught me. Don't put your mouth on His people.



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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:08 PM

"It's funny because I could have gotten the same reaction if I posted something about the Sabbath. Christians have to stop being so critical, especially of one another.



And to the people that's so appalled, you should probably chill out. You don't know who I am to the Lord, so watch your mouths! That's one lesson He has taught me. Don't put your mouth on His people."





Wow! dreamtime said your replies would reveal much about your intentions and I believe he was right.



Before I step out of this whole conversation, I want you to know that I prayed that you would come back today, see where this forum has adversely affected some of your "family" and apologize. I'll keep you in my prayers. God Bless.

HolyGhostGirl

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:09 PM

Tulip89, I approached it as delicately as I could. Christians need to toughen up. I'm tough, so I can take it. However, when people start attacking my Christianity and/or relationship with the Lord, I gotta problem with that.



Peace

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:12 PM

MrWiseGuy, I agree....





"Hey!give her a break ok?Everyone's welcome to post ANY KIND of topic here on CDFF!She asked because she just wants to hear your opinions!COME ON!What would happen if you had a child or a young family member who asked you this? Would you say to them that it's not "Christian- like" to talk about things like this?Let's hear her out first please!!"





You better have my back boy. You already know. Anyway, I aint worried about them people that's cryin with their sensitive selves. Like my mama said, you don't need everybody to like you, just the right one.



It's cool. Message you lata!

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:16 PM

Princekermit, I don't know if you bein sarcastic or not, but that was funny....lol



Bringing down the house with the Real issues & stuff.







And for the accusers, who are glaring at her.







If she did something wrong (& clearly she didn't)...







"let him who is without sin, cast the first stone"







I agree....."

HolyGhostGirl

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:16 PM

Princekermit, I don't know if you bein sarcastic or not, but that was funny....lol



Bringing down the house with the Real issues & stuff.







And for the accusers, who are glaring at her.







If she did something wrong (& clearly she didn't)...







"let him who is without sin, cast the first stone"







I agree....."

HolyGhostGirl

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:18 PM

Is this the same Ms Marvel that's turning men on because she's "too sexy?" I hope not.

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:22 PM

It doesn't matter where you move it. It is what it is. It's still on this website. I posed the same question in the Ask a Girl section.



THIS IS LIFE PEOPLE. DEAL WITH IT!!!!





It's not just about the Church in our perfect little Christian world, believe it or not, it's unbelievers on here, too.



People need to know stuff. I mean, gosh!!!!!



And to the person who said they came here to get away from wordly women like me....like I said before....watch who you put your mouth on. You don't know who I am to my Father!

HolyGhostGirl

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Posted : 17 Apr, 2011 01:27 PM

Bornagaintoserve, I don't mean to be harsh either but...





I can't take somebody serious if they're hiding behind a Flinstones pic. Seriously. You said what you had to say to me, now use judgement and let it go. If you were so offended, you wouldn't have come back in this post, to re-post.



You just want to get something started. You are so not being a peacemaker. Not a good look.





If I don't bring up the M word, it still exists. I believe I have helped someone in a positive way by posting this, thank you very much.



And like I told the other members from the Pharisee posse, watch who you put your mouth on.

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