Author	Thread: The "Secret" To Getting Her
Admin	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 22 Jul, 2010 05:18 PM Feel good about yourself. Even if you don't get her at least you'll still feel good about yourself. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 31 Jul, 2010 04:12 PM If any advice on women doesn't tell you that confidence is the most attractive personality trait you can have, it's not good advice. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 31 Jul, 2010 05:10 PM Yes! Page 4! lol. Anyway yes I agree 100%, no doubt about it, confidence is by far the single most important thing to have. Like I said earlier all the advice just gets a lot of guys to ACT confident, or over compensate (squelching the kindness, tenderness and emotion that enrich a relationship) w/o really BEING confident in themselves let alone just being themselves and in my opinion the only way you can be truly confident is to be happy with yourself and realize there's more to life than whatever it is you're frustrated or obsessed with. It's a fantastic and necessary thing to realize and remind ones self of whenever you realize you need to. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 3 Aug, 2010 12:17 PM Hmmmm.... Matthew 22:37-40 (Amplified) 37 And He replied to him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind (intellect). 38 This is the great (most important, principal) and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as [you do] yourself. 40 These two commandments sum up and upon them depend all the Law and the Prophets. Love. Matthew 6:33 Kinda interesting that you put this out here, since I had been thinking about this as well and then oddly enough, a friend told me about this site. So, the "secret", for me anyway, is to be me. She will love me, as I will love her, just as we are. Getting her? Had to myself out there, but in the right places. Just being me... :excited: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 3 Aug, 2010 07:04 PM What does being yourself really mean though? Does it mean that you don't need to work on self improvement or have anything to learn? Absolutely not. Even the most brilliant diamond in the world needs to be polished and cut before it can be used properly. "Being yourself" really means not doing things to come off as trying to get a girl to like you. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 3 Aug, 2010 09:29 PM For me, being myself means being aware of the totality of my person, including those areas that I know I need to work on. Additionally, those who love me will also point out areas that I may not be aware of. Being myself means that I don't put on airs, or present a false projection of the man that I am, to the best of my ability. It means, in the simplest form, is expressing all who I have grown to be without regard for positive or negative response and knowing that change is a part of living. Doesn't mean that I am socially absent or confused, but it does mean that there will be those that dislike me simply because of the color of my skin. Being me means that hey, it happens and I'm not going to try and change to accommodate their expectations. Being authentic, being real. ""Being yourself" really means not doing things to come off as trying to get a girl to like you." - Not sure what that means, really. I stopped preening for others when I realized to whom I belong. Folk either like me or they don't and "trying to get a girl to like you" is something that, for me, is best left to me just being me. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 4 Aug, 2010 12:13 AM To me, "Being yourself" means not doing things to come off as trying to get a girl to like you. To me it means doing things because you want to do them and because it makes you feel good doing it. There really is an unhealthiness when pursuing women becomes an obsession. The one's you should be looking for will want men of substance who don't need other things or people to validate them as people and men in order to feel good about themselves. Don't go mountain climbing because chicks dig it. Do it to have fun and have something to be in the moment in. Then later when in a social setting it might come up that you like mountain climbing. That is manly and impressive and you can have a good story and say what you like about it, which shows desible traits and who you really are as a person. If you try and manipulate women by being nice, or a jerk, or cocky/funny, or anything other than yourself who exactly is the one being manipulated? Do they recognize this from a mile away? YES! Is it something they find even slightly appealing? No. Just something I thought was interesting to think about. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	The "Secret" To Getting Her Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 08:42 AM Weeellll not all women know what they want or even know themselves, sometimes breaching a woman's wall is a wasted effort, and exiting can be painful for both. :( Sooo QUITE TRYING TO GET HER!!!!! Its revolutionary advise I know, but it seems that women once they start to care, once they give their heart, they have an extremely hard time getting it back, where as men can shut down like a valve. Loving is in the knowing. When you know a woman and see her character, I think that�s when its best to pursue her, usually by than if things work well, it�s not such a hard venture. Reason is, she gets to know you and becomes comfortable enough to TRUST you, to lower the shield enough to let you in, at which point us men can decide if we wanna proceeded. That�s why I don�t like long distance relationships and internet dating as well�.it becomes a dog and pony show, a free for all, and creates quite a lot of confusion and hassle.  Post Reply

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